NCEP - this afternoon will be rough

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Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Jun 25, 2015 14:08:58 GMT -5

So can I just get some hugs or good vibes?

As I mentioned last week, XH has had a pretty severe substance abuse relapse. He was in detox for 5 days and was released Monday. He leaves tomorrow for a long-term rehab stay for anywhere from 30-90 days in another state, nowhere nearby. He and his parents are on their way here now to discuss how they will handle helping me to cover day care payments and medical bills in XH's absence and also if they can possibly help relieve me a bit with Babycakes by taking him occasionally. And then XH has to say goodbye and I'm really dreading that part of it because it's going to be heartbreaking for everyone.

Just send us lots of Internet hugs if you can. I'm sort of past being as angry as I was and am now mostly in "deal with all the mess" mode with random bouts of disappointment and sadness. Babycakes is having some difficulty with things and we need to find him a therapist too. TIA!

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zelda25 Full Member Posts: 4,154 Likes: 4,730	NCEP - this afternoon will be rough Jun 25, 2015 14:10:25 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by zelda25 on Jun 25, 2015 14:10:25 GMT -5 Hugs to you and Babycakes.
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AJL Senior Member A taco truck on every corner! #imwithtacos Posts: 9,676 Likes: 21,421	NCEP - this afternoon will be rough Jun 25, 2015 14:10:50 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by AJL on Jun 25, 2015 14:10:50 GMT -5 Lots of big hugs to you!
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ChillyMcFreeze Senior Member Posts: 7,790 Likes: 9,575	NCEP - this afternoon will be rough Jun 25, 2015 14:14:29 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ChillyMcFreeze on Jun 25, 2015 14:14:29 GMT -5 Oy, lyss. I missed the original post, but lots of belated hugs. I hope the X-ILs will be helpful.
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2curlydogs Elder Posts: 13,154 Likes: 24,207	NCEP - this afternoon will be rough Jun 25, 2015 14:14:55 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by 2curlydogs on Jun 25, 2015 14:14:55 GMT -5 All the good thoughts, lyss.
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meshaliuknits Elder I told y'all to vote cats! Now the Sith is your only hope. Posts: 25,478 Likes: 35,833	NCEP - this afternoon will be rough Jun 25, 2015 14:20:22 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by meshaliuknits on Jun 25, 2015 14:20:22 GMT -5 many warm kitty hugs to you.
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SwimDeep Senior Member Don't laugh. I'm being cool. Posts: 7,002 Likes: 5,867	NCEP - this afternoon will be rough Jun 25, 2015 14:28:20 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by SwimDeep on Jun 25, 2015 14:28:20 GMT -5 (((HUGS))) I'm glad the in-laws are willing to help out!
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NewOrleans Elder Posts: 17,774 Likes: 37,761	NCEP - this afternoon will be rough Jun 25, 2015 14:31:01 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by NewOrleans on Jun 25, 2015 14:31:01 GMT -5 Oh honey. Best of luck tonight. It sounds like your XIL's are at least halfway decent people, so I hope the knowledge that you are not alone will strengthen you. Hugs to your little guy.
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Jun 25, 2015 14:31:01 GMT -5 NewOrleans said:

Oh honey. Best of luck tonight. It sounds like your XIL's are at least halfway decent people, so I hope the knowledge that you are not alone will strengthen you. Hugs to your little guy.

I was gonna write something, but it was basically just gonna be this ^.

(hug) lyss (hug2)

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anonymous Full Member Posts: 2,130 Likes: 1,443	NCEP - this afternoon will be rough Jun 25, 2015 15:11:30 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by anonymous on Jun 25, 2015 15:11:30 GMT -5 oh i'm so sorry to read this. sending you tons of hugs and vibes. Not sure where you live but if you're in metro DC I am happy to help you.
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WOT?* Elder Posts: 21,300 Likes: 21,291	NCEP - this afternoon will be rough Jun 25, 2015 15:13:48 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by WOT?* on Jun 25, 2015 15:13:48 GMT -5 I am so sorry. Hugs and internet support to you and yours.
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