You guys will remain in my thoughts. Please update us after the surgery. I am really so so glad they caught the tumour when they did. 8cm!! Big hugs and courage to you. It is a scary situation and I'm sorry you are going through it.
I'm so sorry to hear that the tumor has spread but I'm glad the doctors are optimistic about the outcome and will be able to operate so quickly, and that your AF colleagues are being so supportive. You, C, and your H will be in my thoughts. Big hugs to you all.