Post by luv2rn4fun on Jun 30, 2015 18:31:22 GMT -5
I think I speak for everyone in that we are very happy for your BFP. We have all been rooting for you and know that your journey has been very diifficult.
I saw your post a few hours ago and it's not sitting all that well with me. I agree with grover in that out of respect for some of the ladies on this board it would have been nice to give a headsup so they wouldn't be blindsided to a BFP post.
Again, so happy for you and wish you nothing but the best! I also believe you didn't have I'll-intentions but it is coming across as a little insensitive to those who just had a loss or are still TTTC.
Boy, you can hear a pen drop in here. I admit that my first thought was BFP probably should have been in the title. To be fair, I can't remember if that was an established rule here or just over at TTTC. Either way, I'm going to assume she just posted in a state of pure excitement and had no malicious intent.
Boy, you can hear a pen drop in here. I admit that my first thought was BFP probably should have been in the title. To be fair, I can't remember if that was an established rule here or just over at TTTC. Either way, I'm going to assume she just posted in a state of pure excitement and had no malicious intent.
Oh, I totally agree that there was no malicious intent and that we don't have any established "rules" for these posts. I also want to be very clear that I am thrilled for rockinrobyn...she has had a very rough road to get here, one that I wouldn't want anyone to go through.
I think that the title could have been different in many ways...not only did it not mention a BFP but I honestly thought it was one of those posts where everyone comes in and says what they are happy about. I had zero clue when opening it that a BFP would be mentioned (I was on my iPhone so couldn't even see who the OP was.
I don't want to make a big deal about it because I truly don't think it was meant to hurt anyone here. Just thought it needed to be brought up since it obviously did sting at least one person on this board and I can only imagine a couple others.
Post by rockinrobyn on Jul 1, 2015 10:41:36 GMT -5
I am really sorry to those who I hurt with this post. I never meant to hurt anyone's feelings. I completely see that I should have worded my title a little differently and added that there was a BFP inside. Again...sorry.
Oh, I totally agree that there was no malicious intent and that we don't have any established "rules" for these posts. I also want to be very clear that I am thrilled for rockinrobyn...she has had a very rough road to get here, one that I wouldn't want anyone to go through.
I think that the title could have been different in many ways...not only did it not mention a BFP but I honestly thought it was one of those posts where everyone comes in and says what they are happy about. I had zero clue when opening it that a BFP would be mentioned (I was on my iPhone so couldn't even see who the OP was.
This was my issue- the previous title made it seem like a general thread, when it was really an AW thread. And it should be an AW thread and I am super glad that her BFP is here. But, it was a blindside and had I been having a worse morning it would have put me in a really bad place.
Thank you for the apology rockinrobyn. I know you didn't intend to hurt anyone here. I'm also sorry if my post took an ounce of excitement from you. That's honestly the last thing I want as I am truly very happy for your news, as I know everyone else on WC is as well! We're here for you and excited to journey with you these next 9 months!
Boy, you can hear a pen drop in here. I admit that my first thought was BFP probably should have been in the title. To be fair, I can't remember if that was an established rule here or just over at TTTC. Either way, I'm going to assume she just posted in a state of pure excitement and had no malicious intent.
Oh, I totally agree that there was no malicious intent and that we don't have any established "rules" for these posts. I also want to be very clear that I am thrilled for rockinrobyn...she has had a very rough road to get here, one that I wouldn't want anyone to go through.
I think that the title could have been different in many ways...not only did it not mention a BFP but I honestly thought it was one of those posts where everyone comes in and says what they are happy about. I had zero clue when opening it that a BFP would be mentioned (I was on my iPhone so couldn't even see who the OP was.
I don't want to make a big deal about it because I truly don't think it was meant to hurt anyone here. Just thought it needed to be brought up since it obviously did sting at least one person on this board and I can only imagine a couple others.
Wow. All I read is "I, I, I" in your reply. Way to make it all about yourself! Given that there are no "rules" and you and Grover ARE making a big deal over it, I think you need to shut it and stop being over sensitive and self centered. WOW is all I can say.