Preschool is awesome!! I got so much done the one day each week DD went last year. This year she'll be in 2 days a week, which will be even better! Only a couple more months until it starts again here.
I totally get it. Now that I'm not at school in the summer but my kids go to DC twice a week still, I do farm stuff in the morning and errands in the afternoon.
My kids are decently good shopping but it takes like 1/4 of the time and I actually can think about what I'm doing.
Haha, me too. DD has such a sassy attitude all the time now (how did I forget how terrible 3 is??? Lol). It's driving me nuts. But anyway, preschool is awesome for properly tiring her out.
I'm also counting down the days till summer camp starts for the boys. We're out at a play place right now and I have to stop at Wegman's on the way home so we have something to eat for dinner and I am already dreading it.
Maybe find a local church that does a MDO/PDO? Do those still exist? Growing up I remember we had one in my church and it was 1 or 2 days a week and they took infants and toddlers.
Post by DarcyLongfellow on Jul 1, 2015 12:52:24 GMT -5
Oh yes, kid free errands are SO MUCH FASTER!
This summer has been crazy because I've had to drag both kids with me everywhere. I had a rare kid-free morning the other day, and I was in and out of Costco in 22 minutes. TWENTY-TWO minutes!
Preschool is magical! I had one semester of 6 hours of kid-free time each week when DD was in 2-year-old preschool and I was pregnant with DS. The amount of things I could accomplish in three hours was amazing.
I miss preschool more than elementary school for the older kids. My 3 year old is exhausting, and errands are difficult. I can take the older two anywhere though. Maybe next year I'll send her over the Summer and keep the older two with me.
oh my gosh, grocery shopping has totally changed for us too. It used to be almost fun, but now it's a nightmare of constantly having to put her back in the seat of the cart. She stands up again and again and again. If I take her out of the cart, she runs wildly away (towards danger, always towards the danger!), but if I keep her strapped in, she screams and also wiggles her way out of the seat belt and into standing position again.
This is C's third week. She goes two days a week from about 8:30-2:30 (we could leave her until as later but haven't yet). Yesterday while she was there I went to the gym; paid our bills; went to the dry cleaners, the post office, the library, Target and Toys R Us; picked up H at home; went to lunch and a bookstore and STILL had 30 minutes to kill. It was sort of glorious!
Post by thecatinthehat on Jul 2, 2015 2:09:04 GMT -5
That was around the time I started being done with SAH. I need time away, I did not mind taking him but he was causing me so much anxiety and stress whenever we were at the store for more than 5 mins. I really struggle with public perception, and I know that DS is completely being a typical toddler. He hated being in the stroller and dog walking became an issue. I found my happy place in working part-time and him being at preschool until 2pm. He is happy, DS is happy, dogs are happy and I a feel fun-fucking-tastic!