Sorta, attempted 2 FMF. The first was me making out with the dude while he had sex with his gf (I didn't wanna have sex) and the second the dude couldn't get it up (absynthe in Prague will do that!) and the girl and I just made out. We actually met up in NYC for mussels last week and we were laughing about the ordeal! ETA: She's still a good friend.
I haven't, and at this stage in my life/relationship, I wouldn't. I've made out with women, and I think they're hot and beautiful and stuff, but having sex with one would be more of a novelty for me than an actual desire. A MMF threesome sounds more fun to me, but it's not something I'd actively pursue.
For me personally, I would have difficulty sharing someone I loved. A threesome in a relationship would be too far outside my comfort zone to consider. A casual encounter, however, I'd probably do.
Ultimately, you should only do this of you're 100% ok with it, otherwise it breeds grounds for problems.
A few years ago I was casually dating this guy, but we both knew it was going nowhere. We were sitting in his room when his best friend walked in, shut the door and said, "How about both of us take you right now." I know they both saw the OMG YES!!! pass across my face. They are both fucking hot and swat team cops. It would have been every fantasy rolled into one, but we have way too many mutual friends and I know they would have blabbed. Part of me still hates me for saying no.
And I've been propositioned my couples a few times. Meh. There was always one person out of each couple that just didn't do it for me.
Post by messykitchen on Aug 17, 2012 17:08:57 GMT -5
Having a woman watch while you guys do it is not a threesome, in my opinion. What in the world would the watchee get out of it? That's more of like, a voyeurism fantasy.