Post by countthestars on Aug 17, 2012 16:34:15 GMT -5
H's grandfather was in the hospital last week and was recently moved to assisted living. We visited him in the hospital the day after he was admitted about 10 days ago (2.5 hours away) and H went down again on Tuesday to see him in AL. He is still currently in AL
H's grandma fell today leaving AL and was brought by ambulance to the hospital. She had some tests done and seems okay but is disoriented.
We have plans to go down again on Friday to spend the weekend, but H feels like he should go down today. He would stay until tomorrow. I have to be down there at my office (I WFH) on Monday and Tuesday and could stop by without H on Monday evening.
Do you think I should go down with H tonight? I feel like I should because he shouldn't have to go alone twice in one week but I also don't feel like I need to be there since H's three siblings, mom, aunt and uncle and a few cousins will be around tomorrow.
Go or stay? H won't give me an opinion - he says that he doesn't care either way - I mostly believe him but don't trust 100% that he would tell me if he wanted me to come.