S/O-Were you thinking about BJs and sex

[hisno1girl]

in the 7th grade?

I wasn't. There was a girl in school who was considered the whore of Babylon because rumor was that not only had she French kissed a boy, she let him touch her boobies and we were all "Ewwwww!!!!!!!"

[bbaggins]

7th grade, no. 9th grade, hell yes.

[EllieArroway]

Thinking/talking about it? Yes. Doing it? Not even close. But some of my friends were.

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Aug 17, 2012 21:25:18 GMT -5 bbaggins said:

7th grade, no. 9th grade, hell yes.

Agree. Not partaking but thinking about it.

[eddy]

No I was innocent.

[silva]

no....
though...there was a girl who the rumor was she masturbated with a curling iron....and her brother stuck a pin in his penis hole.

[VeryViolet]

I was definitely starting to think about it but not in a way I would have acted on if that makes sense. And then I got to tenth grade and well I was thinking about it a lot and had a boyfriend lol.

[hubes]

I definitely didn't know what a bj was in 7th grade. But, I was naive.

[Deleted]

The most I ever thought about was a kiss on the lips - not even a french kiss - at that age.

Like PP, I was thinking about that kind of stuff when I was in 9th grade, though, and around older teens.

ETA: I didn't do any of that stuff until I was in 10th / 11th grade.

[beefcheeks]

No! I think this sort of talk started around 8th/9th and then it was still awhile after that before I actually DID that sort of thing!

[MWOS]

yeah, but I was in band. So 7th grade in band years is like 11th grade for regular people

[Deleted]

No. Not even in high school. And talking about sex wasn't taboo among us. Teachers were really open about it too. Our teenage pregnancy rate is also among the lowest in the world (France).

[hubes]

Mary, did you go to band camp?

[Doc_Lobster]

Good lord, no.

But when I was in 9th grade I knew two 7th graders who had babies. Sad.

[-Moe-]

I was definitely thinking of having sex with Dean. OMG, DEAN WAS SO HOT.

It was going to be magical. Like, on a beach, the waves crashing on us, music coming from somewhere.

hahahhAHHAhahaahah

[TemperanceBrennan]

I wasn't, but I know that in either 7th or 8th grade there were a couple girls that were having sex. So, it shouldn't have been a surprise to anyone when the first girl in our class to get pregnant, got pregnant in 10th grade.

And for the record, that was in the '90s.

[MWOS]

Aug 17, 2012 21:31:05 GMT -5 hubes said:

Mary, did you go to band camp?

11 times.

middle school-senior year of college

[bab]

7th no, 10th yes

[textbookcase]

No, not at all. Not until mid-high school. I was still playing with Barbies in 7th grade.

[VeryViolet]

Oh yeah I forgot to add the first girl I went to school with who got pregnant we were in 8th grade. That wasn't the norm but there were some pregnant girls in high school. It is crazy to think that those kids are teenagers now.

[amberlyrose]

Yeah. I had my first real bf that year (well, as real as it can be at 13). I didn't have sex til I was 19, though.

He did touch my boobs.

[verycontrary247]

I was innocent until 9th grade.

I remember this slutbag redhead chick who always had giant hickeys on her neck in middle school though. Grooooossssss.

[statlerwaldorf]

I was. Although now I am pretty grossed out about the whole thing. I was in 7th grade and he was a junior in high school. Back then I thought it was cool to have the attention of a high schooler. Plus most of the neighborhood kids were latchkey kids and had access to a lot of privacy.

[beefcheeks]

Aug 17, 2012 21:29:55 GMT -5 MWOS said:

yeah, but I was in band. So 7th grade in band years is like 11th grade for regular people

Lol

[Deleted]

I pretended it was an interest, but I had no idea what I was talking about.

[lazyphoque]

Not in any specific way that would indicate an actual understanding of sex. Mostly just gossiping about Tracy Jones having sex and saying I totally wanted to have sex with Mark Gentry*.

*Names changed to protect the persecuted and cute.

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Aug 17, 2012 21:37:53 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

I still don't really think about BJs much. lol

Lol, I second this.

[ladystardust]

I did not know what a BJ was in 7th grade. I didn't even know what the "f word" stood for. Didn't think about having sex until out of high school I think. I never had a boyfriend in HS, so I didn't think about it lol. Oh, my sheltered childhood...

[mrsjuleshs]

No and THANK GOD my now 8th grader thinks it all is gross and she thinks girls who even french kiss boys or let them feel their boobs are sluts. I am hoping this continues for years.

[mrsjuleshs]

I knew what all of that was though and from what the kid says, she gets it too but she says YUCK! She actually gets annoyed when my friends and I make lewd jokes when the kids aren't supposed to be in hearing range but they are. I was not sheltered. My mom was very open with me and I am doing the same with DD. I want her to get correct information and understand the emotional and physical impact sex can have on her life instead of having her just hear things from her friends.