My H is makingme self-conscious

[-Moe-]

Maybe he wants to be William Hung?

Oh baby when she mooves, she mooooves!

[mamasaurus]

I vote smash his balls one time when he talks crap about your bangs and see if he does it again.

FWIW, tamb, I think you'd look hot even if you were bald.

[birdistheword]

My H knows that the only acceptable response when I change my hair is "Looks great, honey!"

And yes - I like the no more blow jobs rule.

ETA - I forgot to add that I think the bangs look great on you!

[Deleted]

I think you look gorgeous with bangs. Very stylish. Forget H.

[daisyheadmaizie]

Lame. You look fantastic with bangs.

[lazyphoque]

1. You look fantastic.

2. Tell him that's fucking mean and to please stop. It's hair, for pete's sake.

[caitlinbree]

If you've posted a pic of you with the bangs, I've missed it, but I'm sure you look great!

Sorry he's being assy about it.

[eb777888]

Guys are so weird about a woman's hair. I'm lol'ing that he keeps saying "she bangs."

I think the bangs look great. It frames and compliments your face a lot. I like you better with bangs.

[omgguineapigs]

Um, wow.

[imoan]

I wanna see a pic! But picturing tamb in bangs... I bet it looks awesome on her!

[imoan]

Ignore

[iamgrace]

Your H is nuts!

[spedrunner]

I saw your ootd and i LOVE the bangs! They look awesome on you!!! I think your H is jealous of how HOT you look!!!

[bonquiqui]

I don't like bangs, to be honest, BUT you look amazing with bangs. I can't pull that off, but you look hot. MRtamb is being weird lol

[imoan]

Tamb, you were meant to have bangs. For realz!

[underwaterrhymes]

Tamb, you look gorgeous with bangs. Your H is crazy (and, in this case, insensitive).

[hey]

Have you ever seen Da Vinci's Inquest? You kind of remind me of the actress that played Sue.

[louloudi87]

Your husband is crazy, you look great with bangs.

[fuckstick]

He's a lying liarface. I'd bend you over the kitchen counter.

[alzi]

I never like bangs, and you look great. I seriously love it on you.

[Deleted]

You look beautiful. Men are dumb- never forget this.

[bab]

Don't let him define how you feel about yourself. You are gorgeous tamb. Your bangs look great! I wish I could pull off that look.

Sometimes when I get my hair done I have some of the length snipped off. My H always makes some dumb comment like "why did you cut your hair?" It is annoying, but I don't let it get to me.

[omgguineapigs]

Aw, you guys are so sweet. [image]

I don't know why I'm feeling so self-conscious. I never feel self-conscious about hair cuts. Not even the two times I chopped it all off. Or when I dyed it dark knowing he liked blonde hair. It must just be that I'm so stressed about other stuff.

Read more: pandce.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=ml&action=post&thread=46316&page=2#ixzz23wgPqafP

Oh, I'd be stressed if I found out my H was a judgey superficial dickhead as well.

[WOT?*]

Your bangs are very flattering on your face shape and the stylist did a good job. They did a bit of shaping and razor-cutting, I take it, and that's what you don't like? You had them blunted before?

Think of a song in response that would be equally annoying and insulting to your H that when he comes in singing "She bangs" you can break out in return. Maybe just the first part of "Yellow Polka Dot Bikini." You know: "It was an itsy-bitsy teeny-weeny... and stop there. Do it at some opportune moment, like when he's changing or shaving. Cue innocent look. "What? It's just a so-ong. It's not insulting or aimed at making you feel bad or anything. You know, kind of like when you sing 'She Bangs.' It bothers you?"

My passive-aggressive bitchy tip of the day.

[Marle]

Tamb, the other day you posted about him rather you shaved your hair instead of getting bangs. Had you already gotten the bangs? Or did you decide to get them despite that comment?

[omgguineapigs]

You don't have a daughter, do you? I'd be very concerned about having kids with someone who was going to judge them (or teach them to judge themselves) based so heavily on appearances. This doesn't sound like a "he'll come around" thing - I can't imagine being with someone with such a hurtful character flaw that you feel weird about what YOU do to YOUR own damn hair.

So not cool. Kids get zits, braces, fat, weird hair, bangs... then what is he going to say to them?

[omgguineapigs]

Oh never mind. You do have a daughter. Now I feel very sad.

An adult like you can handle this bullshit, children cannot.

[eb777888]

Oh JFC.

I'm not saying Tamb's H isn't in the wrong here but I'm hardly worried about their daughter.

[omgguineapigs]

I'm just saying it sounds like a personality thing, not a one-time issue. And personalities are rarely only directed to one person.

LOL

[jane6672]

Tamb, I believe your husband is EMOTIONALLY ABUSING YOU. You must seek counseling, STAT, for the sake of Joanna.

If you let him suppress you on this hair issue, when will it stop??? WHEN TAMB??? Never. That is when.