Post by prettipenny on Jul 22, 2015 0:44:35 GMT -5
My boyfriend and I just broke up tonight for almost the exact same reason. It's the first time I've ever broke up with someone I so badly did not want to break up with. It's so shitty and I am so sorry you are feeling this hurt. I really like what the therapist wrote to you- it's so very true. It's very hard to walk away even when it's for the best. Hang in there, I'm sure it gets better!
I don't think it's cheesy at all, and you can't argue with free. I am sorry that both of you are hurting. Thanks for sharing the site, and love the therapists response.
That's pretty cool! I might look into it. I have to switch therapists because mine is on a hiatus from work and it's been impossible to get an email or a call back to make an appointment.
Post by jojoandleo on Jul 22, 2015 10:10:51 GMT -5
I think this is good for you. I love the way that was worded. The therapist is right. You just stood up for yourself and yourself worth. That is something to be proud of. You are sad right now because break ups are sad. It doesn't make you weak or wrong or anything. It makes you human. Knowing you did the right thing doesn't make it hurt any less. I love you. Take care of you- at which you are already doing a great job.
Hugs man. Your email makes me feel validated too! I say good things! Sometimes we need to hear the same thing from different sources to really let it sink in. You know if always be on your side, so hearing the same thing from an outside party who doesn't have any friendship/loyalty motives makes total sense.
And you know I'll listen all day long if you need me too ? <------ETA: LOL, I looked super confused because I put an emoji there...it was supposed to be :heart:
I'm actually going to check this out! I like to do things online as its a time saver. I think this is a great option for a touch up! Thanks for sharing
mp, you should be so proud of yourself! You deserve better and you recognized that and took action, even though you knew you would be hurting! That is really commendable. HUGS!!!