It depends on who I was friends with first/closer with. If I'm close with both, I keep them both. If I'm only close with one, I usually unfriend the other.
I think I'm FB friends with all of my exes. Well, all but one, but I think we were together like two weeks tops.
I don't really talk much with one of them (the college ex who I was closest to). The others things were never serious enough that it's awkward to talk now.
Post by FrozenSunshine on Aug 19, 2012 1:08:10 GMT -5
DH's best friend is a playboy. Or at least a want to be playboy. His ex is still a friend of mine, as is he. I relate to her more, and they were at our wedding.
To date, it's been about 2 years, and I've kept them both as friends, I imagine they have their FB, locked down from each other, since both have moved on.
So i've been thinking about this more.....i usually don't friend the SO's unless i actually like/want a relationship with the person more than just as an SO.
I'm still FB friends with SILs and BILs exes. Altho I unfriended one of BILs exes bc she was soo annoying.
This is a sensitive topic for me bc I lost a lot of friends with my last relationship. People I really thought were my friends, not just bc I was with my ex. And this goes above and beyond FB obviously, but if the ex in question never wronged me personally and my friend or relative wasn't offended by me being in contact with them still, I would still remain friends with them. Whether FB or IRL.