I honestly don't know how you can handle dealing with these people day in, day out. Like, I'm not really confrontational at all on FB, but.....yeah.....that would make me completely crazy.
Is there any chance that you guys could be moved to a more, um, progressive area? I know you kind of just got there, but how long are appointments? Do you even want to move, or is that area good for your family otherwise?
There were probably 20 individual democratic primary candidates marching/campaigning in the 4th of july parade, complete with their entourages. The republican party didn't have any candidates marching at all, just 8 people marching for the general party with a few signs, to an awkward silence, and poorly stifled laughs. I almost felt bad for them. Almost.
Is there some...party line? You're supposed to toe?
Maybe I've been immersed in Catholicism too long, but it's so bizarre that your H can be all "let's hold hands with the gays and let them be clergy" while the other dude is all "the gays are all going to sit next to hitler in hell".
You know? FWIW, I think your H is in the right, but the inconsistency has to be confusing for the church members.