estrellita I'm sorry things are so rough right now. Feel free to PM me anytime, text or fb. ((hugs))
katespade Hopefully you can work something out. I really hope you get your staycation!
I haven't been around much which makes me sad I've been so busy with working, life, and helping H with his life lol! Lots of good crazy stuff on the horizon in our house. I've been just so busy. Hopefully it'll slow down here soon so I'll have more time to play on here. I still read almost everything I just have no time to actually post. Boo!
Well my mom had a reaction to something they gave her so she is staying another night at the hospital. She is in good spirits surprisingly. Apparently she also loves the food at the hospital lol. She keeps raving about it.
Now I need to wake up super early tomorrow morning so I could go grocery shopping then drive 90 minutes, hopefully after rush hour, to get her.
DH has been a rock star this week. He has cleaned our spare room for my mom's arrival plus he bought me beautiful flowers for no reason.
Huge hugs estrellita. Financial stress and house crap is so difficult. I'm so sorry you're struggling right now, but I think talking to someone would be super helpful.
I'm sorry your mom has to stay longer @emtmissy, but I'm glad she's in good spirits! She's lucky to have a daughter like you to take care of her!
Post by estrellita on Aug 27, 2015 19:20:19 GMT -5
Thanks for all the good thoughts, I really appreciate it. I've had kind of a hard time bonding with E because he's such a daddy's boy and all the screaming he did when we were trying to BF or just do skin to skin. I think that has affected me more than I thought and it's just one more thing on my pile of depression and anxiety. Anyways, I just feel like I need someone to talk to but it's probably best I talk to a professional instead of airing it all out here. I'm mentally and physically exhausted so I don't even know what to do. I'll be ok, it just might take a while to get there.
HoneySpider at least a week. My poor DH lol. He has been my rock-star this week. He cleaned our spare bedroom to make her comfortable and be able to store her belongings. I was a little nervous for her to have surgery. She had to have a hysterectomy, which our OB/GYN said she should of has done years ago. She was pre-cancerous and thankfully so far they haven't found any cancer.
It is funny talking to her right now since she is stoned on Oxycodone lol. She isn't making any sense. Now she is having some kind of reaction to either something she ate or a medication they gave her. No matter what she says she is coming home tomorrow. Every few hours she is having blood drawn since her potassium is low so she hasn't slept in 2 days. She can't wait to get here so she can sleep lol.
estrellita SO MANY HUGS!!!! E needs you and would totally notice if you weren't there. Financial stress is the worst. I completely understand. We had to get help from our in-laws after we bought our house. Things will settle down and get easier. I hope you have the best luck in finding someone to talk to. It sounds like it would really help. Message me anytime. ((hugs))
Post by HoneySpider on Aug 27, 2015 20:14:28 GMT -5
We fixed the dishwasher. I'm still going to have the property manager check on the replacement part, but at least now we don't have to remove all of the water by hand like I did last time.
Today I reached a point where I was really stressed and upset about a bunch of things and I wanted to eat my feelings but I didn't. I stayed on track with my calories. I'm proud of myself because I am a huge emotional eater.