Continued hugs and love to you. I'm so glad you have decided to go to the services. I think funerals can be very therapeutic. Idk. They have always helped me move through the stages of grief. Plus, as pp said, it will mean a lot to her family, to see that she meant so much to so many. ((hugs))
Continued hugs and love to you. I'm so glad you have decided to go to the services. I think funerals can be very therapeutic. Idk. They have always helped me move through the stages of grief. Plus, as pp said, it will mean a lot to her family, to see that she meant so much to so many. ((hugs))
Yes. I don't feel like I can ever let go unless I attend. It's just something I need to do.
The catty girls at my gym are being sort of awful even in the midst of this. It's making it even more difficult. Uggghhh.
Good for you for going- I wish you healing and peace (hugs). Also as others have said, it will mean so much to her family. Screw the catty girls, people are so lame sometimes.
One of my friends took her own life almost 5 years ago. She was a cop as well as a Senior Chief in the Navy (Reserves). I had seen her about 3 weeks before it happened. We lived in different towns but she had come to mine for a meeting I also attended. I had pneumonia and needed to rush out to get an ultrasound due to a potential blood clot (which I ended up having). I gave her a quick hug and told her I'd see her next Drill weekend. She went off to help with the Chief selects for 3 weeks and was gone the day after she got back home. I actually knew before her family did and that knowledge still haunts me. I hate that I rushed out of there. You will have similar regret and I'm sorry that you have to go through that.
Wam, please be gentle with yourself and be safe in your travels. As to wanting to scream at the snarky ones in your gym, that's completely normal. I've gone off on people before after tragedy hit and that's completely not my nature.
The catty girls at my gym are being sort of awful even in the midst of this. It's making it even more difficult. Uggghhh.
WTF IS WRONG WITH THEM? Seriously though, you know they suck. You've previously decided not to let them bug you about CF stuff because of this. So please don't let them bother you about this. (hug)
The catty girls at my gym are being sort of awful even in the midst of this. It's making it even more difficult. Uggghhh.
WTF IS WRONG WITH THEM? Seriously though, you know they suck. You've previously decided not to let them bug you about CF stuff because of this. So please don't let them bother you about this. (hug)
Basically I texted a "safe" one and said I was worried about getting all the information because the person doing the travel organizing has purposely left me out in the past. They have their own text or FB thread that she won't put me on. She promises me information and then never responds to me. Anyways, the "safe" one told all the others and I got a public call out.
THIS IS NOT THE TIME.
I don't give a shit that you don't think I'm hot enough to be part of your stupid fucking club. I just want to say goodbye to my friend.
It's fine now. I got the information and I'm just ignoring them.
WTF IS WRONG WITH THEM? Seriously though, you know they suck. You've previously decided not to let them bug you about CF stuff because of this. So please don't let them bother you about this. (hug)
Basically I texted a "safe" one and said I was worried about getting all the information because the person doing the travel organizing has purposely left me out in the past. They have their own text or FB thread that she won't put me on. She promises me information and then never responds to me. Anyways, the "safe" one told all the others and I got a public call out.
THIS IS NOT THE TIME.
I don't give a shit that you don't think I'm hot enough to be part of your stupid fucking club. I just want to say goodbye to my friend.
It's fine now. I got the information and I'm just ignoring them.
I'm sorry you have to deal with this on top of everything else. You are an awesome friend and they should be able to put aside their petty differences right now.
OK fuck those bitches. Go say bye to your friend. That's important and I totally understand that from experience. Ignore them and when you get back keep your distance. They are shitty people that you don't need to be around.