Definitely get a straight answer from a regular doctor. At that stage of pregnancy, they should be able to give you more information. I was told the same thing by an ER doctor and while it did end in a m/c, going to my regular ob/gyn was much more informative and comforting. If you will indeed miscarry, you should probably be given misoprostol pills and some more advice.
I'm absolutely praying for you and your baby, that everything is normal and healthy. Hang in there!
I finally heard back from another doctor. She said my hCG levels are 61,000 which would mean I am "very pregnant" and therefore should have seen a heartbeat. She suggested going ahead and scheduling a D&E but said I could also schedule another ultrasound if I wanted to do so.
I opted for a second ultrasound (with a different doctor!) even though I am not feeling too optimistic, but especially without any bleeding (yet), I feel like proceeding with a removal without further confirmation is a bit premature. I am hoping for the best but trying to prepare myself for the worst.
I go back on Monday morning and will update again then.