So Frustrated with my mom (again)

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Look I have totally stepped back on the relationship with my mom, but I'm her only child and she's single. So when she needs someone to take care of her then it's me. She is also normally a really good mom except when she makes me furious.

So I just landed from LA and had to come to her house from the plane because I'm taking her in for eye surgery tomorrow and will stay here for three days. She also watched my dogs while I was in LA which was nice. They were kind of a pain, but she does totally love having them. 

Anyways I got her a really nice gift as a thank you. Which she totally blew off as like "oh thanks." Even though it's two of her favorite things and i know she likes them. She aalso sked if I wanted to pick up a pizza for dinner because she didn't really feel like anything, but I know she does't really like pizza. I said how about I make you meatloaf! (She loves meatloaf). Now she's bitching that it's taking too long and she's STARVING! Well WHY THE FUCK didn't you tell me that when I offered to make it? So now she's sitting here hemming and hawing about how long it takes to cook (newflash she knows how long it takes, it's her goddamn recipe). And now of course the veggies are for some reason taking epically long to cook. 

So I said I'd pull out the meatloaf part and finish cooking the veggies because I knew she was hungry. Then she's all put out by that like it's the most ridiculous thing in the world, because she doesn't want to eat her meatloaf without the veggies. WHAT THE FUCK??? I fucking give up. 

[moolarkey]

Is she scared of the surgery and it's coming out in attack on you?

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Sept 21, 2015 21:33:09 GMT -5 moolarkey said:

Is she scared of the surgery and it's coming out in attack on you?

No she's had it before. It's an eye surgery. She is supertired though so that could be it. And possibly hangry. Good point though maybe we'll all feel better once we eat. 

[bg]

I wonder if she's anxious about the surgery too. Not cool at all to take it out on you tho. Will she talk about how she feels about the surgery?

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I'm sorry. Moms can be difficult, believe me I know! And being an only child and having it rest all on you (same here) sucks.

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Well the meatloaf was a total bust haha. Mom's mood cheered up and we laughed about how awful it was.