It really pisses me off that there are never conversations like this directed to husbands. No one has ever questioned my husband about if he's "looking good for me when I get home from work" or "keeping in shape" or hinted that I won't have sex with him if he doesn't.
When we get home, I change into yoga or PJ pants and a t-shirt or tank top, H changes into a t-shirt and crappy shorts, DS strips down to his t-shirt and diaper. Whatever.