I saw my ex last night

[bliss]

I ran into an ex last night. We dated for about 1.5 years or so. His current girlfriend *hates* me. We were still friends after we dated and once she found out we dated our whole circle exploded.

It was great seeing him. But at the same time it has me reeling.

I basically haven't dated anyone since him because the way our situation ended was just fucked up. It just reinforced my insecurities.

And I'm fucking moody today. Like I want to punch someone.

[cjeanette]

Did you see him when your were in your cute date outfit? That should make you happy. At least it wasn't at Target in no-makeup and pulled up hair or something.

[bliss]

Yes. True. But I think that made it worse. Like he kept complementing me and was very touchy feely like we used to be. And he apologized for everything which was nice.

[Deleted]

How was your date more importantly?

[bliss]

Eh. I'm pretty sure I'm going to die alone.

[ijack]

I hate the way that seeing someone like that can make you feel.
One of my exs (who is a total loser) tell me he loves me this weekend. AT HIS WEDDING. So awkward.

[wedbliss5]

Aug 23, 2012 9:49:54 GMT -5 ijack said:

I hate the way that seeing someone like that can make you feel.
One of my exs (who is a total loser) tell me he loves me this weekend. AT HIS WEDDING. So awkward.

I have no words...

[wedbliss5]

And PS - I USED to be on thenest/bump in 2008 ... then I left a desk job and didnt get sucked back in until yesterday. Sorry about the random pop-in comment.

[Deleted]

Do people really put that much stock in an ex? When I see an ex I feel fabulous, as in, "yeah, motherfucker, look what you don't have, neener neener." Especially if they try to flirt with me, ew, no, that boat has sailed. Shut them down and carry on.

Perhaps I have too much confidence.

[bliss]

Aug 23, 2012 9:49:54 GMT -5 ijack said:

I hate the way that seeing someone like that can make you feel.
One of my exs (who is a total loser) tell me he loves me this weekend. AT HIS WEDDING. So awkward.

Mine told me he never loved me. But he loves his current gf and that's why things ended. Awesome.

[bliss]

Aug 23, 2012 9:54:28 GMT -5 papiercherri said:

Do people really put that much stock in an ex? When I see an ex I feel fabulous, as in, "yeah, motherfucker, look what you don't have, neener neener." Especially if they try to flirt with me, ew, no, that boat has sailed. Shut them down and carry on.

Perhaps I have too much confidence.

Any other ex it would have been fine. I knew this guy for 7 years. He was my best friend before and after we dated. The way he ended things was really douchey. And it's fucked with me ever since.

I'm over it. But seeing him and having a bad date just didn't mix.

[80sjunkie]

Aug 23, 2012 9:59:29 GMT -5 bliss said:

Aug 23, 2012 9:49:54 GMT -5 ijack said:

I hate the way that seeing someone like that can make you feel.
One of my exs (who is a total loser) tell me he loves me this weekend. AT HIS WEDDING. So awkward.

Mine told me he never loved me. But he loves his current gf and that's why things ended. Awesome.

And he was all touchy feely? What a douche.

[bliss]

Aug 23, 2012 10:04:29 GMT -5 80sjunkie said:

Aug 23, 2012 9:59:29 GMT -5 bliss said:

Mine told me he never loved me. But he loves his current gf and that's why things ended. Awesome.

And he was all touchy feely? What a douche.

Yup. :-| :@ :-(

I agree, total douche.