I need ideas and since you Canadians just celebrated Thanksgiving maybe it's timely.
We aren't traveling for Thanksgiving this year.
It's a little sad because I've been with my family for 35 Thanksgivings but alas, I used all my PTO and need to save what remains for my Aruba trip. I refuse to drive 6+ hours in one day and only see one of our families so, alas, we are staying home.
We thought about inviting people over but I don't know if we know anyone without plans and I don't want to send out an invite to have it turn into getting invited to someone else's house. I just want some low-key screaming toddler fun.
DH wants to cook a turkey.
What else should we do to make it fun? Kid friendly sides? Funny outfits? Easy desserts to make? Should we spend the whole day decorating for Christmas?
I really want to make it festive and not a day of lounging around bitter that daycare is closed. So give me ideas!
We had thanksgiving once just the 2 of us. It was amazing. We watched the parade, overcooked, ate and then ate again. You could do some sort of craft with your kids or puzzles or games.
We spent many Thanksgivings growing up abroad - and some of my fondest memories are ones we celebrated with rag-tag groups made up of whomever was looking for a table to share - so I'd encourage you to at least stay open to the idea of inviting friends/etc along if you find someone without somewhere to go.
Cook your favorite meal. If it's all the fixings? Great. But if not - indulge in "non-traditional" foods.
Music and Christmas decorating - and parade watching.
Eat at a normal-ish dinner time, and before make meals just about snacking on the best appetizers (I could eat nice cheese and crackers all day long).
If you do invite friends over, I love our tradition of a champagne toast pre-meal where everyone goes around and says what they're most thankful for from the past year.
Post by gibbinator on Oct 13, 2015 11:25:55 GMT -5
Our plans fell through due to sick hosts, so I made us an impromptu dinner of chicken cordon bleu (from a box ), scalloped potatoes, beet greens, carrots squash and apple pie for dessert (apple crisp is really easy). I can't imagine cooking a turkey for 2 adults! Maybe a small ham?
Post by bluelikejazz on Oct 13, 2015 11:42:09 GMT -5
Make your own traditions!
-Wake up and watch the parade in your pj's with spiked coffee / hot chocolate -Bust out the Christmas decorations -Play board games -Only make your favorite parts of the meal -Thanksgiving or Christmas craft
Post by jeaniebueller on Oct 13, 2015 11:45:08 GMT -5
If there is a local turkey trot, I would go, even if I had to walk the kids in a stroller! Those events are always so fun and festive. I have cooked turkey for 2 before. Watch the parades on TV?
Post by badtzmaru22 on Oct 13, 2015 11:53:39 GMT -5
We are going to have a breakfast casserole and mimosas and watch the parade. Then something fun to eat that isn't turkey. I was thinking tacos, but we love appetizers, so we might do that instead.
We are having friends come up for the weekend on Friday, and will do turkey etc then.
If you know anyone that's not from the States, invite them. I find that immigrants don't necessarily celebrate on their own, but like the experience of the meal. Ask them to bring wine.
We stay in our Jammies through the parade and dog show. We start the day off right with pastries and coffee, segue into apps (usually something easy from TJs), then finish off with dinner at 4:00. My H and I tag team meal prep through the day: turkey, gravy, mashed potatoes, stuffing, cranberry orange chutney, Brussels sprout hash, biscuits, and pumpkin pie. Football is on in the background as we dress for dinner. Once DS is in bed, we snuggle up with hot cider and start our online shopping.
It's a really nice way to spend the holiday. There aren't as many expectations as Christmas.
Post by undecidedowl on Oct 13, 2015 14:09:35 GMT -5
Watch the parade in pjs Do a thanksgiving craft Have the whole meal catered (our grocery store does this) Make just the desserts and eat them all Play tag in the backyard Take a nap Put up Christmas decorations Eat more dessert Play board games
Post by purplecow0206 on Oct 13, 2015 14:30:23 GMT -5
We usually stay home and it's great! We tend to find someone else that is happy to have us over or we invite someone to eat with us. It's wonderfully low key and the thing that I love most about it is that it's one of the few days that you're pretty much forced to just chill and not be running around with a million errands. So long as you prep beforehand for the day and don't overwhelm yourself with details that aren't important, it's really fun.
H and I never bothered with Thanksgiving (Canadian or American) while living in the UK, but I made a big Christmas dinner every year and found that a large chicken substituted nicely for turkey when there were only 2-4 people to eat it.