Ok, wtf? I have a hair that keeps growing in the middle of my forehead. Like, a whisker. It's THICK, but it's white (thank god for that. It was super long when I noticed it and plucked it out last week). It keeps coming back, and it seems to be a fast grower. Great. So now I have the same 3 whiskers popping up on my chin and now a forehead whisker.
I'M bloated and constipated and look 5 months pregnant. My belly is actually HARD. WTF is wrong with it?
My mom called this morning and told me she knew I wasn't going to my godmother's granddaughter's baptism, lol. My godmother called her the day after I RSVP'd to tell her "So, papie is not coming, apparently she had SOMETHING planned, not sure what, but something". My dad is not going either because he has to work (there was a sad death in the family of two employees, so they are short staffed). So she pulled the "I am going alone with my friend Ioanna, I guess I have to get used to attending those events all by myself now" in a sad voice. I pointed out that she didn't have to go, but she started on obligations again and on how my godmother attends alone all the time. WELL THEN GO ALONE AND STOP TALKING ABOUT IT.
LOL at attending alone - because you know she won't know anyone there!
Anna is invited to a slumber party. It will be her first sleepover too, it is one of her BFFs birthday party. They invited 3 little girls (all from school and all are Anna's friends) to go to the moves and then sleepover. The parents are braver than I am, lol. They have 4 kids, but they are sending their 3 boys to sleep at some friends' house so that the girls can have their slumber party without them bugging them. I am super nervous about this, lol. I was never allowed to do sleepovers as a child, so this is completely new territory to me. I know I would have LOVED this kind of thing. Also, it is the same evening that baptism we are not attending is, and my girls night out/in, so I'm glad I didn't cave to my mom's pressure ;-)
Ok, wtf? I have a hair that keeps growing in the middle of my forehead. Like, a whisker. It's THICK, but it's white (thank god for that. It was super long when I noticed it and plucked it out last week). It keeps coming back, and it seems to be a fast grower. Great. So now I have the same 3 whiskers popping up on my chin and now a forehead whisker. I noticed something similar today. WTF, man. This whole getting harrier thing does not work for me.
Anna is invited to a slumber party. It will be her first sleepover too, it is one of her BFFs birthday party. They invited 3 little girls (all from school and all are Anna's friends) to go to the moves and then sleepover. The parents are braver than I am, lol. They have 4 kids, but they are sending their 3 boys to sleep at some friends' house so that the girls can have their slumber party without them bugging them. I am super nervous about this, lol. I was never allowed to do sleepovers as a child, so this is completely new territory to me. I know I would have LOVED this kind of thing. Also, it is the same evening that baptism we are not attending is, and my girls night out/in, so I'm glad I didn't cave to my mom's pressure ;-)
I'm so jealous of Anna and her friends! That sounds so fun!
Post by pantsparty on Oct 14, 2015 10:25:51 GMT -5
I'm sorry karenj. I really could not live with that type of stress. I hope you find some solutions. None of what your H is doing is acceptable as a partner in life.
Yesterday at pickup, L's teachers told me they have to take her out of the room when they sing Wheels on the Bus, because she cries every time they mention Mommy or Daddy. This is in addition to her being really clingy in the mornings, and last week one morning she cried and cried when I tried to leave (she also told me on a different day she missed me, and told H the same thing once we got home). I've been assured this is a normal separation anxiety phase, but it's kind of killing me. She's always been so good about me leaving her there, so I am in new territory with this, and I feel so guilty.
On top of all of that, I've been in some weird anxiety spiral for the last week or so, and I'm so drained. And it's only Wednesday! Gah.
The house we are buying was allegedly struck by lightning. Some ceiling fan remotes were fried and the pool remote no longer operates. Our only recourse is to walk, which we are threatening to do. No matter what, I don't think we will close when we are supposed to. And I am okay with it.
Anna is invited to a slumber party. It will be her first sleepover too, it is one of her BFFs birthday party. They invited 3 little girls (all from school and all are Anna's friends) to go to the moves and then sleepover. The parents are braver than I am, lol. They have 4 kids, but they are sending their 3 boys to sleep at some friends' house so that the girls can have their slumber party without them bugging them. I am super nervous about this, lol. I was never allowed to do sleepovers as a child, so this is completely new territory to me. I know I would have LOVED this kind of thing. Also, it is the same evening that baptism we are not attending is, and my girls night out/in, so I'm glad I didn't cave to my mom's pressure ;-)
It's good to be available in case you get the middle of the night call that your kid wants to go home.
I can't tell you how many times that happened to me when I was younger. LOL
Yes, we already told the mom about that, and Anna too. Hopefully not, but you never know
Post by karmasabiotch on Oct 14, 2015 10:47:01 GMT -5
Yesterday Jacob wouldn't get out of the car after school because he wanted to go to the park and not do homework. Since he's been glued to my side I turned off the car and took my purse, keys, and his backpack into the house figuring he would follow me. Less than 2 minutes later literally all I did was put down the stuff and let my dogs outside he came eunning into the house saying he didn't do anything. It seems that he climbed into the front of the car and put it in neutral and it rolled down my driveway and hit my neighbors tree.
I called the police to make a report and one of the officers that was at my house two weeks ago was the officer that showed up. He took the report and told me given the circumstances he wasn't going to give me a ticket for child endangerment. I never thought I was doing that. He was in my driveway at my house with the car off and it was in the 60's outside.
I need a new bumper and I think I will have to buy a replacement tree for my neighbor. This is the neighbor that hates us and clips his grass with scissors and cements his driveway twice per year.
I never meant to put Jacob in a dangerous situation and now I feel like I'm failing him too. I didn't know a car that was off coukd be shifted into another gear. I'm clueless.
I was just calling my work phone to locate it and accidentally then called the guy I met in Mexico. Omg. It's 7 am but I also don't want to ever call him. Omg. I am so embarrassed.
I'm sorry karenj. I really could not live with that type of stress. I hope you find some solutions. None of what your H is doing is acceptable as a partner in life.
We were just informed that one of the people ateending this conference has bed bugs. They are on a differnt floor then me and I checked before I did anything, but that sucks for that person. And now I'm itchy.
Our bulldog passed away in June (I think it was june?). One of DHs friends has a bulldog and at the last get together she brought her bulldog. We snuggled her for hours, SD2 and I were choking up because we missed our Lucy. DS walked her dog around the park. It was so great.
She's going out of town for 5 days and asked DH we wanted to pet sit. I wrote DH back and said YES! I don't even want her to pay us, I want to snuggle this dog for 5 days. I'm so excited!
I had the worst conversation with a coworker. I didn't follow my "never talk politics at work" rule.
Basically coworker is a Trump supporter.
The whole thing started off innocuous with him saying he had to pay for his daughters insurance and snowballed in to Obamacare, NO SKITTLES FOR THE POOR PEOPLE, him saying Mexicans are criminals and an anchor baby mention in front of 3 other coworkers who are Mexican.
It's okay for him to say this stuff because his grandfather immigrated from Mexico.
Post by marylennox on Oct 14, 2015 11:43:40 GMT -5
The amount of hair I'm shedding is beginning to concern me. I finally got it to the length I wanted and now it's all fucking falling out. I think I'm going to have no choice but to cut it.
I just spent a shit ton of money on home decor. I've been torn between getting these rooms finished and not wanting to spend the money, I practically had to force myself to the check out line. How can someone love shopping and simultaneously hate spending money, I don't know.
I finally bought socks to wear to work. Tomorrow the cold feet days are over. I didn't realize I was so picky about socks. I still need to replace the athletic socks but I have been wearing H's socks at home because I don't feel like going to the store. I completely forgot to check them out when I was at TJMaxx.
I skipped breakfast and had a terrible lunch of fries with a lemonade. I'll eat a better dinner...maybe.
The photog sent over the online gallery for our family photos and I am so heavy. Wholly displeased with all of my physical appearance. So I made sure to eat a salad (chicken caesar without dressing) and banana for lunch. And maybe I can pick up DD early enough tonight that we can go for a walk before she goes to bed.
On a positive note, DD looks absolutely beautiful in the pics and I just love her personality in each photo. (heart)
I'm waiting to see the doctor in a waiting room. The guy sitting across from me is wearing full camo, pants and long sleeve shirt. He's wearing a black hat with the confederate flag with Rebel across it. He looks rather out of place considering we're in Canada (confederate flag is in none of our history, and it's just a stupid thing to wear) and the full out camo. He's failing at blending into the waiting room. Camo fail. He looks basically like this. I really didn't think people still thought it was ok to wear confederate flag attire.
Edit- when he stood up, he even had rubber camo boots on. I think I've seen hunters in less camo. It's not even hunting season yet!