Post by luv2rn4fun on Oct 14, 2015 15:15:31 GMT -5
((hugs)) awick14. Been thinking of you a lot. I hope you get your D&C on Friday. That was really nice of your DH to want to stay home with you. I can't imagine how hard this is on both of you. Please lean on us as much as you need to and your DH as well. Wish I could give you a real hug right now...sending lots of love and prayers your way.
When I talked to the OBs receptionist this morning I made her cry. she's going to do everything in her power to get the doctor to call me today and schedule the D&C for Friday. (But he's in surgery all day so he may call tomorrow.)
She is also going to see if he will forward a referral asap to the loss clinic. (They bad part about the clinic is that it is 4 hrs away.)
Post by luv2rn4fun on Oct 14, 2015 15:27:08 GMT -5
I want to cry for you too, awick14. I really hope they get you in Friday and don't make you wait any longer. It's so frustrating that there is a lack of urgency (between possibly not getting in this week, having to spend an entire day at the ER to get answers, and other things I recall from your previous losses). I really feel for you because this is hard enough and then to have all this other stuff on top of it just makes it that much worse. It makes me very angry for you that they aren't moving mountains to make sure you are getting the absolute best care possible. I'm sorry friend...will be praying you hear from the doctor soon and that you get your D&C on Friday. So many ((hugs))
((awick14)) I hope they are able to get you in on Friday....I'm so sorry I hope you are able to get some type of answer or something to help you going forward...Sending you lots of hugs and prayers.
Post by estrellita on Oct 14, 2015 16:20:26 GMT -5
Are they testing to find out what happened? I'm so frustrated for you because I was really hoping you had your answer already and this time would be it
luv2rn4fun- the medical system here is frustrating. The way the system is run doesn't work, I see it everyday at work, and it's hard. If I have to sit in the ER for hours to have the procedure done I will do that as well. (Now that I know it will happen.)
estrellita- unfortunately they probably won't figure it out. But going to the loss clinic will probably give me more answers. (They have the ability to do more tests then OBs here can, and they specialize in helping woman get and stay pregnant.)
Post by estrellita on Oct 14, 2015 16:55:26 GMT -5
I really hope they can figure something out for you so you can finally have a healthy pregnancy and your sticky baby. Is there a reason you weren't referred there before?
estrellita- I could have been referred after my last loss. (You need 3 losses, or two after seeing the HB) But after the doctor found a septum in my uterus and removed it, neither my OB or I thought I needed the referral because there was a very good chance that the septum caused my losses. (My OB really thought this was the reason for the losses, because it can explain the losses at different times.)
Post by luv2rn4fun on Oct 14, 2015 21:03:46 GMT -5
((hugs)) awick14. I still have so much hope for you. I am praying you get some answers at the loss clinic. It is possible that the surgery was the fix and that this loss was one of those 1 in 4 (likely chromosomal issues). It's possible...although in your shoes I would want and be demanding all answers possible. I know every case is different but I would be looking into everything that *might* help give me a take home baby...for us that answer seemed to be baby aspirin. Just something to consider and inquire about when you go for testing at the loss clinic. I'm praying for you big time friend...for healing and peace now and for your take home baby.
awick14 I've been thinking of you too. Huge hugs and thoughts are headed your way. I hope you get some closure from this soon with the surgery and get an appointment quickly with the clinic.
I'm so glad you heard back from the doctor. When I saw your picture of 4 candles my heart hurt for you so much I started crying. I am so, so sorry. It is truly not fair. I wish I could hug you for real but lots of Internet hugs will have to do. ((((awick14))))
So I'll have to go through my night shift without being able to eat anything after midnight. Then my OB will call me at around 8am and let me know what time he thinks I will be going in at. If he is able to put me in for an actual appointment I maybe able to have a small breakfast if the appointment isn't until the late afternoon/evening