I'm displeased with H right now. Last night he took a nap from 9pm-12 (I went to sleep at 12). At 5 I got up to pee and he was still up. Now he's exhausted, of course. His sleeping is only getting worse. He wants a new job, but how is he supposed to even look in his constant state of exhaustion? I spruced up his resume so it's ready to go, but there's not much else I can do to help. Today we're visiting the ILs and they will see how tired he is and, as usual, blame me for it. I swear I don't stress him out that much lol.
No, and he doesn't want to. I'm so frustrated because he makes an effort for a few days and then goes back to staying up too late all over again. He didn't have to travel for work in a month but claims the dread of it is stressing him out hugely. Now there are some trips on the horizon.
Truly I feel I shouldn't complain. I dated some real whackjobs, and H is more than I could ever ask for. But this sleep thing, I wish he would figure it out.
((@moonbeam)) he needs to stop this sleep thing, and honestly if he is anxious he needs to see a therapist or someone.
Also just because he is better then others you have dated doesn't mean you have to settle for him. (Not that you are settling just trying to get a point across.)
My update is that I'm back from vacation and feeling refreshed. Vacation was not exactly relaxing, but enough to convince me that I like my daily routine
Post by HoneySpider on Oct 29, 2015 10:22:29 GMT -5
Did I update on my gym drama? I can't remember. Anyway, I tried out another location last week - it was definitely more time consuming/less convenient to go there, but I do think it's the lesser of the 2 evils right now. At least I didn't feel distracted while working out. I went during an off-peak morning time and it wasn't crowded. I told myself to aim to go at least once a week and try to supplement with other workouts at home and walks. It's only for a few months.
I'm glad it's not so bad HoneySpider. DH and I have been going to the gym later at night, 8pm and it's been so nice and quiet compared to when we used to go around 6-7ish.