Post by christy082 on Oct 28, 2015 14:45:03 GMT -5
There is not one specific instance I can think of but there is a time period of my life where I had the best sex- pregnancy. I'm one of the rare ones that enjoyed pregnancy sex and had more drive then than usual.
Yep. When DH and I were dating, we lived 4 hours apart at the time. Once on a Friday evening, we were talking and missed each other. I loaded up my car at 8 pm, got to his place at midnight, proceeded to have a very nice weekend.
Back Story: We don't get to have spontaneous sex very often because of my health issues.
A few years ago, I don't remember exactly when, we just happened to have some really hot, spontaneous sex. Like, we were pushing clothes aside because we didn't have the patience to properly remove everything.
I hate that it's my fault we don't have more sex like that.
Post by estrellita on Oct 28, 2015 16:50:21 GMT -5
katespade I kinda know how you feel. My depression and anxiety make sex the last thing on my mind. I feel bad but I'm just so tired all the time.
I think honestly it was probably the time I got pregnant, lol. It was one of two times so I like to think this was it, lol. I know a lot of you know what TTC sex is like and how it tends to get boring and chore-like, so it was nice to have a time that didn't feel like that!
We had sex three times in one week in June, which is a lot for us post-baby. I'm 100% sure that one of those times was when this baby was conceived, lol. We just had so much fun, they were all spontaneous, and we really enjoyed ourselves.
Post by luv2rn4fun on Oct 29, 2015 12:39:12 GMT -5
It used to be our wedding night until this past year. Best sex ever was on night 3 of sleep training. We drank wine while C put himself to sleep and later in the evening DH and I were heading to bed. He literally attacked me and became this super hot, aggressive, dirty talking person...literally don't know where it came from (probably the 11 wks of no sex prior to that night) but it was amazing!
ETA: I forgot to mention that this actually took place at my parent's house. They were OOT and I ended up meeting our doula at their house to discuss C's issues, in which she was adamant about sleep training. I started solo on Thurs and DH came down for the weekend. It's always funny to go back there now and sleep in the same bed.
estrellita- TTC sex got really chore like for us. The month we conceived C we had sex 5 days in a row and for some reason it was different and great. One of the times resulted in the longest we've ever had sex and I was surprised how much I enjoyed it.
Our whole relationship I had been on bc until we were TTC. I never realized how much it cut my sex drive. I'm a whole different person when I'm not on it.
Our whole relationship I had been on bc until we were TTC. I never realized how much it cut my sex drive. I'm a whole different person when I'm not on it.
I am the same way. Which is why I won't go back on it.
Our whole relationship I had been on bc until we were TTC. I never realized how much it cut my sex drive. I'm a whole different person when I'm not on it.
I am the same way. Which is why I won't go back on it.
I understand. I just went off it again. We aren't TTC but I'm wondering if the added hormones from the bc is also effecting how I feel (PPD related). It's amazing how significant of a change it is.
I am the same way. Which is why I won't go back on it.
I understand. I just went off it again. We aren't TTC but I'm wondering if the added hormones from the bc is also effecting how I feel (PPD related). It's amazing how significant of a change it is.
I never knew if it was the bcp or antidepressant I was on in the past that killed my drive. But now I am on 2 antidepressants and I am okay. Definitely don't want to be on hormonal bc again. Which sucks because I hate using condoms but it is what it is.
I can't say if it was THE best but it was sort of exciting. We were in Canyonlands National Park in Utah, just my husband and I. We had rented a Jeep in Moab and were driving around on the backroads and exploring the area. We came across an arch called Musselman Arch and we walked out on it. No one was around for miles, it's out in the middle of nowhere, so we decided right then and there to go for it.