A week ago my BIL's wife sent me a friend request on facebook. We didn't actually speak to them in 3.5 years. H doesn't want to re-open that door, so I just sat on the request, didn't confirm or deny. Anyway, yesterday the request disappeared and it seemed that she also disappeared from fb. Out of curiosity I logged into my old account and saw that her profile was still up, so I realized she had blocked me lol. Had I not checked, I would never have known she blocked me. I guess she was offended.
I'm just sitting here interneting now that E is napping. I'm not sure if I want to go anywhere today. I wanted to go to Sam's Club and get my free membership and maybe do some wandering around, but then I'd have to put on real clothes and that seems like too much work. Haha. Maybe I will go there Mon since I have to go into town for E's 9 month checkup anyways. Not like I'm going to buy much if anything since I'm trying to avoid buying too much until we get paid again on Fri. We're ok on money but if we go crazy we won't be!
Today I was supposed to go decorate cookies with my mom for my sister's shower. I tried calling her this week to confirm specifics and mom never called me back. So, instead of bringing it up now, I'm chilling on my couch in my sweats with a book and the tv remote.
Eventually I do need to get up and get a bunch of grading done as well as some work paperwork. But right now it's not happening.
My H's car is so filthy, you almost can't tell what color it is. I really want him to finally get it washed. It still has salt spray all over it from last winter. We even got a coupon in the mail for a free car wash, but the coupon has been sitting in the car for 3 months. I feel very annoyed about this lol.
I need to go to Walmart to get get a few things but really don't want to now since it will be packed. Maybe I'll just wait until either late tonight or early tomorrow morning so it won't be crowded.
My mom is coming over for dinner. I'm making chicken enchiladas but kinda sad I have to make them mild since she can't stand anything spicy. I am a "the more spice the better" kinda girl.
DH is away hunting this weekend and I would love to be able to stay up late with some wine and Netflix but Urg I work again at 6am tomorrow morning.
Just before DH left yesterday we got into a big fight. We both apologized before he left and said we'd talk about it when he got home. Urg now I'm kinda hoping he stays gone for a bit so we don't have to have this conversation. (It's about money and TTC)
I've been tidying up the house today and watching football. I'm hoping 'bama can pull out a win tonight because I'd really like FL/AL to be in the SEC championship game. We are a house divided with those teams and would probably get tickets and go to the game!
*Hugs* awick14, I hope you're able to resolve things with minimal fighting!
I am so annoyed with the Lifetime app. I've been trying to watch the Project Runway finale but it keeps messing up and I'm only at the 3rd commercial break now. If course I already know who wins but I want to see the collections! Anyone else have issues with this app? I don't know if I'm going to watch the show after I finally finish this episode because it's that bad!
I'm kind of in a bad mood and want to vent it out, but when I typed it out to a friend and cousin it sounded so petty. None the less. I'm grumpy haha! I worked from 5am-9pm yesterday... and ALL day today. I need some sleep, but I work at 5am again tomorrow... I'm stranded for another hour too, perks of having one car... Debbie Downer over here!
Today has been all over the place. DH told me today some ideas of what he wants to do in the future financially and I shut down. He is much more of a risk taker then I am. I didn't even give him a real chance to talk about it.
He had been awesome and super helpful today. I think he saw I shut down and was just giving me time. Ugh, guess we will still have to talk about it sometime.
I've been tidying up the house today and watching football. I'm hoping 'bama can pull out a win tonight because I'd really like FL/AL to be in the SEC championship game. We are a house divided with those teams and would probably get tickets and go to the game!
I want this game too...FX we pick the game back up against LSU
Thanx ladies. DH called me tonight to check in and let me know that he is still alive. He sounded in a better mood, and he apologized again. Hopefully we can hold off our talk until mon night because I just worked 14 hrs and I work at least 12 before he gets home tomorrow. This weekend is not good work wise. Urg
awick14 Ugh that sounds horrible. I haven't worked that long of a day in a loooong time! I wouldn't want to have a serious conversation after that either!
I was looking through some old pics and trying to decide if I wanted to dye my hair again. I haven't in about 2 years and before that it had been like another 2 years, haha. I used to all the time in HS/college but stopped after a while. I really like my natural hair color but I've been itching for something else lately. It would just be box dye because there's no way I can afford a salon. I REALLY want to do a crazy color (streaks or something, not everything) but that I can't do on my own. So other than that I'm trying to decide if I want to go darker again? Or just stick with my natural color because I do like it. Decisions decisions..
estrellita- I am in the same vote with my hair. I used to dye my hair black all the time, the upkeep was horrible, and to take it out was horrible to. I just have this feeling the I need to change my hair, I'm hoping it helps motivate me to get back working out.
I need to get back to a place where I'm happy about my body again. It's my 10 yr grad reunion next spring an I want to feel much better about myself by then.
awick14 Totally know how you feel! My 10 year was supposed to be this year but they were slacking on planning it so I'm not sure if or when it's going to happen. I'm a little disappointed but then again I look way different than I did in HS Not that I ever want to be down to that weight again because it's not realistic for me, but I could at least get down to a healthy weight and/or have a little more confidence! Sucks though that it doesn't matter what you've done with your life, it's all about how someone looks, especially in my hometown. But then again it's not like I'm wildly successful either so... lol. Oh well I guess!
estrellita- the biggest thing for my grad class so far seems to be all about everyone's kids. it's hard to see them all talking about their little ones. Our class is very organized, we've voted on the date for the event. There will be a family thing from noon-4pm and then an adult thing from 7(or8ish) until whenever.
awick14 I could imagine I'm hoping if they ever get things going we will do something similar. They originally wanted to do it Thanksgiving weekend but if that happened I was going to be driving down to my parents 3 times in a week (going the weekend before too to see BFF). I'm glad they don't seem to be going with that weekend anymore but it's like come on, people don't live in town anymore (except maybe the people planning it) and can't just drop everything! We have jobs and lives!
I still live in my hometown so I don't have to travel but I'm glad they are planning it so far in advance so that we can plan our summer next year around it.
estrellita- the biggest thing for my grad class so far seems to be all about everyone's kids. it's hard to see them all talking about their little ones. Our class is very organized, we've voted on the date for the event. There will be a family thing from noon-4pm and then an adult thing from 7(or8ish) until whenever.
That sounds annoying, even though I have a kid. Seriously, people should acknowledge there are parts of their life not affected by their kids and unless someone had their child while in school, a reunion is one of those times. Sorry you have to deal with that. I'm sure it sucks
amaranth- 15-20 girls in my class had a kid/were pregnant before graduation.
How big was your class? That sounds like a lot. Even the giant 5000 student high school I worked with only had 27-35 teen moms enrolled at a given time.
estrellita You mentioned wanting to do bright streaks in your hair. My BFF just bought some hair chalk in pink and purple and used that in her hair. She said it was really easy to use and rinses out easily. I think they are pretty cheap too!