Oh!! The snoring front?! He snores and it's gotten worse. He STOPS BREATHING. Legit stops. He did a sleep study and has sleep apnea (DUH!!) and it took him 3+ weeks to pick up his CPAP machine. It's been sitting next to the bed since Tuesday. UNUSED.
OMFG. I'm going to wake up next to a corpse. I swear.
Post by nextbigthing on Nov 9, 2015 7:22:25 GMT -5
He is waaaaaay too particular about cleaning stuff, but in weird ways. Like he hates to vacuum or dust, but is obsessed with laundry, the dishes and DS being clean. Makes me nuts! I know I shouldn't complain, because I'd rather him be neat than a slob, but it's too much!
He always showers before I do. Our towels share a towel bar and he always spreads his out farther than he should and it overlaps my towel. This means when I get a shower the edge of my towels is always damp from touching his. I've asked him soooo many times to not do that, and he just doesn't pay attention.
ETA one more - He never packs everything he needs when we travel. Ever. Something is always missing. It's usually his toothbrush. Occasionally toothpaste (and he hates mine so he complains every time he uses it) or underwear.
He'll text me and say he has news or gossip, but then doesn't elaborate. If I text back and ask what it is, he'll say it's too long to type out and will tell me later, or he doesn't respond at all.
DH will go through phases of being super gung-ho about something - diet fad, actually taking care of the yard (which he CLAIMS is really a priority to him and I'm not to take it over...except the yard looked like shit this year) and I'll adjust to get all supportive and then it peters out SO FAST.
And I'm not really allowed to mention it, lest I be accused of being a nag ("Hey - we need to water those {dying} flowers?" "I got it! I'm doing it every other morning before 8 except any day ending in Y...").
It's so frustrating!
He announced yesterday - he's avoiding dairy. Ok, thanks for letting me in on this thought process as I'm the ONLY ONE WHO DOES MEAL PLANNING. At least I know like 2 weeks from now he'll have moved on.
He makes so much saliva that when he is brushing his teeth he drops spit everywhere. His toothbrush charger thing is always covered in a gross saliva/toothpaste/bacteria slurry and I am not even sure that he does not know it is not normal!!!
Also, he takes off his clothes and leaves them on the floor before bed and does not put them in the hamper in the AM.
Nothing ends up IN the receptacle it should be in. Clothes are next to the hamper, dishes are left wherever he ate what was on them-never rinsed to make dishes easier, trash is left on the counter. Or sometimes he'll be taking off clothes as he walks though the house and there is a trail of clothes everywhere. Drives me nuts.
Complains about being fat, but does nothing about it.
You just described my husband 100%. Add to it he slurps his food down so fast. He makes slurp noises, doesn't even sit down, just stands in the kitchen, and is done eating before i'm even done serving myself.