@ Hold up, what?!

[kwpnjumper55]

So In the past, DH has been adamant about not having a 3rd child. I always told him that we would be financially able to after I graduate school, get a job, ect.

Today I mentioned that I was eligible for a tubal ligation and I told him that I bet he would be eligible for a vasectomy. He told me that he wants to wait to do anything permanent until after i am done with school.

In man talk: does that mean he is willing to think about a 3rd child or that he is scared of a scalpel cutting through his junk?

[Deleted]

It could be a little bit of both. Maybe he is having second thoughts about wanting a third child?

[FrozenSunshine]

Since he didn't throw you under the bus and tell you to head for the tubal, maybe he's considering it?

[karebear219]

Sounds to me like maybe he's changing his mind too.

[sarack]

i think he wants a baby!

[kwpnjumper55]

Aug 26, 2012 12:53:25 GMT -5 @jennuinne said:

Yeah, sounds like he's having second thoughts because 1) he didn't say you should go ahead rather than him, and 2) he set you finishing school as the timeline.

If he is open to having a 3rd, is that a good thing?

Yes! I feel like our family isn't quite complete. I always said that we would only have two, just enough to replace ourselves but now I totally see us with 3 kids.
I even have names picked out. Sad but true

[jennlin]

i hope your 3rd baby is a little girl. girls are the absolute best. i personally would not feel complete without a girl. our original plan was that if we had 2 boys, we would adopt a girl.