Post by dr.girlfriend on Aug 27, 2012 21:43:26 GMT -5
I'm guessing she requested the delete for a reason...maybe edit out the details? I think it's enough to know she was having a rough time and wanted thoughts and prayers.
I haven't been long enough here as others posters but I read your story the other day and I had been lurking on the nest for years, so I'm sure you don't deserve this. I'm not going to flame you, I had a similar situation and I know for sure that nobody has a right to judge you, as only you know what is best for you and your family. Please remember that you can listen to the advice of other people but ultimately it is you who have the right to decide. I hope you are better and that you find peace and clarity to decide what is best for you.
I didn't see your post from the other day, so I only have bits, pieces, and allusions to go by. But you shouldn't feel badly at all about drawing strength from whatever community you can when you need it, this one included. Thinking of you.
Peggy I am so sorry you are going through all of this. I was mid-reply in your other post when it was deleted so I didn't get a chance to tell you that I've been thinking of you and rooting for you.
Oh Peggy. I don't mean this as a flame AT ALL because I know how hard it is - but how many times are you going to let this happen? I think you hit the nail on the head the other night when you said something along the lines of "I'm not going to let him treat our daughter this way" or see him treat you this way or whatever. It's true - your daughter - and YOU - deserve to be a part of a loving and supportive family.