My younger sister contacted me last night and announced she was pregnant. I feel I should be happy for her but I'm not. She's been dating this guy for 4 months and is 3 months pregnant. She has been living with my mom since she had her daughter 8 years ago and is now talking about buying a house together with her bf even though she has no money. Her track record with men has not been the greatest and unfortunately I don't see this turning out well for her and my niece. I feel like a horrible person right now for thinking these things.
No the bf is not loaded. I'm not even 100% sure what he does. I know he works a night shift, I think it is at a distribution center/ warehouse. Lately my sister has been dating guys for 3-4 months so I dont really pay much attention to details about them until they pass the 4 month mark.
Yikes, I'm really sorry. I think I would react the same way, and I don't think you're a horrible person at all for not being just over the moon giddy about it.
Post by georgeharrison on Aug 28, 2012 10:03:44 GMT -5
I think it's fine to not be excited about the situation. That doesn't mean that you love your sister or her unborn child any less. You are just recognizing the challenges that might face them, and you are caring for them. Nothing wrong with that. I'm sure when the baby is born, you will be an enthusiastic aunt and sister.