Does it seem like I'm in a relationship?

[Bernadine]

I don't really want to have "the talk" with him, because I'm not sure I'm ready to define anything yet, but I'm thinking I might be? lol.

We see each other once, maybe twice a week. I usually spend the night. We usually go a day or two during the week without talking to each other. Neither of us are seeing other people. We're making plans for October. He met my sisters briefly, but hasn't met my parents and I haven't met his.

Would it be wrong to say yes if someone else asked me out? I feel like it would. (No one else has asked me out.)

[drtouble]

I agree....yes this seems like you are in a relationship.

[wingingitinmotown]

When G and I were in that stage of things, we joked that we were in "an R Word" before he was ready to put the label on it. It does sound like a relationship to me though!

[hobs209]

Sounds like one to me... but I think if things haven't been discussed then it's not necessarily wrong to go out with someone. But I'm heartless.

[gozf]

Sounds relationship-y to me. How long have you two been seeing each other, again?

[aliciar6]

i would say if you feel it would be wrong to accept a date request from another guy, then yeah, it's a relationship at least to you, but you have to find out where he stands on the subject.

[blackkitty]

Yes it sounds like a relationship

[heavenly]

hmm... a part of me says yes, it sounds like you are in a relationship but the other part says , never assume anything.

[Deleted]

It sounds like a relationship, but you have no idea what his opinion on it is. I think it's time for the talk.

[achase123]

Maybe I'm old-fashioned but I like to know where I stand with someone. I will usually initiate the conversation if they don't.

[Bernadine]

We've been seeing each other for 2 1/2 months. I don't want to see anyone else, but I don't think I want a "boyfriend" yet, either. Is that dumb? I think it is.

I still feeling like a dating moron. My last boyfriend was xh, and we started dating when I was 16.

[bullygirl979]

Aug 28, 2012 12:12:51 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

We've been seeing each other for 2 1/2 months. I don't want to see anyone else, but I don't think I want a "boyfriend" yet, either. Is that dumb? I think it is.

I still feeling like a dating moron. My last boyfriend was xh, and we started dating when I was 16.

Okay, but here is the bigger question. How would you feel if he accepted a date with someone else?

[Deleted]

Aug 28, 2012 12:12:51 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

We've been seeing each other for 2 1/2 months. I don't want to see anyone else, but I don't think I want a "boyfriend" yet, either. Is that dumb? I think it is.

Ha! I can totally relate. But I still think it's important you have some level of definition. Like is dating other people okay?

[Bernadine]

Aug 28, 2012 12:37:08 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Aug 28, 2012 12:12:51 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

We've been seeing each other for 2 1/2 months. I don't want to see anyone else, but I don't think I want a "boyfriend" yet, either. Is that dumb? I think it is.

I still feeling like a dating moron. My last boyfriend was xh, and we started dating when I was 16.

Okay, but here is the bigger question. How would you feel if he accepted a date with someone else?

I would not like it at all. I guess I have my answer, lol.

[awick14]

Aug 28, 2012 12:37:08 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Aug 28, 2012 12:12:51 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

We've been seeing each other for 2 1/2 months. I don't want to see anyone else, but I don't think I want a "boyfriend" yet, either. Is that dumb? I think it is.

I still feeling like a dating moron. My last boyfriend was xh, and we started dating when I was 16.

Okay, but here is the bigger question. How would you feel if he accepted a date with someone else?

You need to ask yourself the above question!

[bullygirl979]

Aug 28, 2012 12:45:31 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

Aug 28, 2012 12:37:08 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Okay, but here is the bigger question. How would you feel if he accepted a date with someone else?

I would not like it at all. I guess I have my answer, lol.

So....maybe you should have "the talk" then?

And why don't you want to call him your BF? Is it just fear?

[Bernadine]

Hmmm. Honestly, I think it's because I think other people will say it's "too soon" after my split.

I'm not even divorced yet, because of MD's forever long separation period.

[bullygirl979]

Aug 28, 2012 14:04:40 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

Hmmm. Honestly, I think it's because I think other people will say it's "too soon" after my split.

I can understand this but screw what other people think.

Besides you don't have to take out a billboard ad just because you have the talk about not seeing other people.

[Bernadine]

Ok, I will at least bring up the seeing other people part on Friday. We're going to Hershey Park, so we'll have a nice long car ride to discuss it, lol.

[gozf]

Aug 28, 2012 14:08:29 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

Ok, I will at least bring up the seeing other people part on Friday. We're going to Hershey Park, so we'll have a nice long car ride to discuss it, lol.

I LOVE HERSHEY PARK!

[Bernadine]

Aug 28, 2012 14:17:31 GMT -5 gozf said:

Aug 28, 2012 14:08:29 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

Ok, I will at least bring up the seeing other people part on Friday. We're going to Hershey Park, so we'll have a nice long car ride to discuss it, lol.

I LOVE HERSHEY PARK!

ME TOO!

Hershey Park happyyyyyyyy, Hershey Park glaaaaaaad. So many things to see and do! Good times to be haaaaaaaad.

Also, I'm seriously stressing over footwear. I know I should wear sneakers, but I don't wanna.