What do you think- surprise party?

[usm]

I got a text today from a number I don't know for a friend of mine's surprise party this weekend. It is Sat at 3 pm at a Mexican restaurant do you think this is a family event? They are really family oriented so I'd assume so but then I overthink everything and don't want to randomly show up. I have a feeling it's a Dutch treat type of thing.

[cabbagecabbage]

I'd text back and say who you are and ask for more details. If you get an invite viatext, I think it's perfectly fine to ask some polite questions. It's not exactly "Hey, can I bring my kids to your black tie wedding?" territory.

[usm]

It was weird, like picture of an evite. I should just text back though to acknowledge I got it.

[nowa]

I would definitely write something back like, "awesome! thanks for the invite. who is this by the way? then after a response, i'd write back a polite hello, good to hear from you or nice to meet you and Is it adults only?

[lala]

I think since she's texting you an image of an evite…you don't need to worry to much about normal protocol. Definitely ask who is invited - girls only, families, couples, etc.