When your friends come to visit

[jag01]

Say one of your girlfriends come for a visit, your DH is home, what would he typically do? Would he hang around and visit the whole time or come in and have a short visit then go and do his own thing?

[chatterbox]

He would probably make a little small talk and then go do his own thing.

[vettymama]

Say hello and then go do his own thing.

[nowa]

Hmmm... Probably stay and hang out with us. If we wanted girl time we'd probably go out for coffee or drinks leaving him with the kids.

[lala]

Depends on who the friend is. Most id expect the latter, but there's one or 2 he'd want to see more.

[Deleted]

H hangs with us, if I want girl time, I usually plan it outside the house and leave ds with h. My friends all get along with him tho so there's that. And I'm the same with his friends.

[jag01]

Jan 4, 2016 22:08:49 GMT -5 @mama2b said:

My DH would come and visit briefly, then go off on his own in that scenario. Often if I have my 2 oldest friends come for a weekend, DH will take the kids and go away for the weekend leaving me and my friends to visit in peace and have the run of the house.

Wow. You are a lucky lady to be married to such a thoughtful man. 

[serendipity]

My husband would come say hi then go do his own thing. Depending on the friend, he may hang for a while, but he would be happy to go do his own thing.

[gastro]

Depending on the friend he would hang out for a bit and then would take DS1 out of the house. There are a few friends (the ones who have all the gossip) that he loves to hang out with to get all the news . Many of my friends he finds exhausting and annoying so he would make himself scarce.

[quesyrah]

He would leave or hide before she even got there. He's very....not social lol.

[lexus]

Jan 4, 2016 22:20:04 GMT -5 nowa said:

Hmmm... Probably stay and hang out with us. If we wanted girl time we'd probably go out for coffee or drinks leaving him with the kids.

This would be us too!

[dizzycooks]

Depends, he'll hang out a bit sometimes and sow times he'll leave. It depends on what she and I are doing really.

[Kcthepouchh8r]

He tends to Take on the hosting duties host so he will make food, grab drinks, keep an eye on the kids but join in on the convo when not preoccupied.

[expectantsteelerfan]

If it was my bff, dh might hang with us if we're doing something he wanted to do too, but they were friends before dh and I got together. If it was anyone else or like my book club, he'd say hi and then hide. If other spouses were there though he'd hang out.

[lattelady5]

Like others, it would depend on the friend. Most of the time he'll just say hey and leave but he's stayed before if it's a friend he knows well. It doesn't matter to me either way. If I want just girl time I leave him with the kids and go.