Dress me for my date tomorrow night *UPDATED* PIP

[blackkitty]

Been out of the dating thing for a while. Forgot what I am supposed to wear. It's a first date and we are going to a steak restaurant. It's way too hot for jeans. It's also likely to rain.

I'm thinking a black skirt? And I have no idea what on top. I don't want to whore it up and wear a cleavage top like I normally would. Help me please. Thanks

ETA:
Going to wear this dress (sorry that it is sideways no idea why):


Short, but covers up the boobies and comfortable
With black patent wedge sandals

[naeljun]

I love dresses.

[gozf]

Whore it up!!!

I dunno summer dress? Skirt and tank? I wear a lot of those.

[blackkitty]

Aug 28, 2012 14:28:31 GMT -5 gozf said:

Whore it up!!!

LOL, this guy is supposed to be a "nice guy"
Not sure why they thought he would like me then... I guess I am trying to change my ways though.

Is cleavage on a 1st date a "do" or a "don't"? I don't trust my own judgment these days.

[bullygirl979]

Aug 28, 2012 14:34:15 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Aug 28, 2012 14:28:31 GMT -5 gozf said:

Whore it up!!!

LOL, this guy is supposed to be a "nice guy"
Not sure why they thought he would like me then... I guess I am trying to change my ways though.

Is cleavage on a 1st date a "do" or a "don't"? I don't trust my own judgment these days.

A little cleave is good. A lot of cleave is a no-no. Leave something to the imagination.

[chrissie3416]

My gramma (a very wise woman) always told me to either show the top or the bottom...so if the shirt is low cut the skirt is longer (meaning not a mini) or if it is, then less cleavage.....
I personally am a huge fan of the maxi dress for summer...they are cute comfy and if they fit right they can be pretty sexy...

[blackkitty]

I need more clothes

[achase123]

I vote a maxi dress or a long (maxi) skirt with a figure skimming tank (racer-back). I always feel sexy in dresses or skirts but you can pull it off without revealing too much.

[blackkitty]

Maxi dresses are not a good idea for me... my best physical asset is my long sexy legs and I hate to cover them up. Sadly I don't have any appropriate short skirts... I have super conservative work clothes and shorty shorts for the weekends... and nothing in between.

[achase123]

Like this:



or this:

[udscoobychick]

Are the shorts in decent condition? Dark denim or cotton? You could dress them up with killer heels and a fancier top....

Chrissie, I have a rule like that, except I break it into 3 parts: boobs, back (I LOVE backless stuff), and legs. You can get away with showing off one of them. Two if you're trying to look *super* sexy. It crosses the line into trashy when you're showing all three!

[blackkitty]

Aug 28, 2012 15:11:48 GMT -5 udscoobychick said:

Are the shorts in decent condition? Dark denim or cotton? You could dress them up with killer heels and a fancier top....

I have black and a really dark blue but not denim pair. Both are practically brand new and "nicer". I have a pretty purple blouse that hides my stomach (problem area) b/c it is looser at the bottom. I'm afraid it's too much cleavage though (my mom says it is)
I wish I could show y'all my closet LOL

[bullygirl979]

Aug 28, 2012 15:15:21 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Aug 28, 2012 15:11:48 GMT -5 udscoobychick said:

Are the shorts in decent condition? Dark denim or cotton? You could dress them up with killer heels and a fancier top....

I have black and a really dark blue but not denim pair. Both are practically brand new and "nicer". I have a pretty purple blouse that hides my stomach (problem area) b/c it is looser at the bottom. I'm afraid it's too much cleavage though (my mom says it is)
I wish I could show y'all my closet LOL

do a PIP of what you are thinking!

[blackkitty]

Aug 28, 2012 15:20:39 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Aug 28, 2012 15:15:21 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

I have black and a really dark blue but not denim pair. Both are practically brand new and "nicer". I have a pretty purple blouse that hides my stomach (problem area) b/c it is looser at the bottom. I'm afraid it's too much cleavage though (my mom says it is)
I wish I could show y'all my closet LOL

do a PIP of what you are thinking!

Okay I'll try to do one at home tonight

[achase123]

Aug 28, 2012 15:15:21 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Aug 28, 2012 15:11:48 GMT -5 udscoobychick said:

Are the shorts in decent condition? Dark denim or cotton? You could dress them up with killer heels and a fancier top....

I have black and a really dark blue but not denim pair. Both are practically brand new and "nicer". I have a pretty purple blouse that hides my stomach (problem area) b/c it is looser at the bottom. I'm afraid it's too much cleavage though (my mom says it is)
I wish I could show y'all my closet LOL

I am also a fan of shorts with a nice top and nude or wedge heels. They'll be dressy enough and really show off your legs (for some reason I'm picturing you with killer legs).

[Deleted]

I like shorts and heels, but I don't think they sound appropriate for the restaurant. Somehow steakhouse and shorts and heels don't go together for me.

I vote summery dress like posted above. If you don't have one in your closet I think you should definitely go purchase one. You will totally get a ton of use out of it and can find a lot of them really inexpensively.

[blackkitty]

Aug 28, 2012 15:48:07 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

I like shorts and heels, but I don't think they sound appropriate for the restaurant. Somehow steakhouse and shorts and heels don't go together for me.

Not sure if it matters but it isn't a fancy steakhouse, it's a chain kind of like Outback I think (I haven't been there but on the website that's what it looks like)

[achase123]

Aug 28, 2012 15:53:27 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Aug 28, 2012 15:40:41 GMT -5 achase123 said:

I am also a fan of shorts with a nice top and nude or wedge heels. They'll be dressy enough and really show off your legs (for some reason I'm picturing you with killer legs).

She has AMAZING legs!

I knew it!

[blackkitty]

Aug 28, 2012 15:55:20 GMT -5 achase123 said:

Aug 28, 2012 15:53:27 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

She has AMAZING legs!

I knew it!

Aww y'all just made my day :heart:

My best friend in college used to always sing that song to me... "She's got legs and she knows how to use them" lol

[blackkitty]

Aug 28, 2012 16:14:36 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Aug 28, 2012 15:56:18 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Aww y'all just made my day

My best friend in college used to always sing that song to me... "She's got legs and she knows how to use them" lol

BK's legs are so long that instead of kicking off her shoes, she punts them over balconies in hotels. True story. Killer legs!

LOL, that was a funny moment! I'm actually wearing those shoes right now
I'm not going to be able to PIP me in those shorts now b/c everyone is going to expect me to have Rockette legs!

[Deleted]

Aug 28, 2012 15:50:44 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Aug 28, 2012 15:48:07 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

I like shorts and heels, but I don't think they sound appropriate for the restaurant. Somehow steakhouse and shorts and heels don't go together for me.

Not sure if it matters but it isn't a fancy steakhouse, it's a chain kind of like Outback I think (I haven't been there but on the website that's what it looks like)

Aww gotcha. Then it should be totally fine.

[jojoandleo]

What kind of a steak restaurant are we talking? Outback-I'd wear jeans, a cute top, and heels. a nicer restaurant-a cute summery dress, or a skirt and fun top with heels or flats. A $100 per steak and sides are extra type restaurant-a fancy dress with.

My first date staple outfit was always jeans, cute dressy top and heels with minimal makeup so I look pretty, but not like I am trying too hard.

[blackkitty]

bumping this for gozf

[doriswe]

Oh, I like that dress!!!

[naeljun]

Nice!

[gozf]

I like the dress. But I wanna see you in it. I need to feast my eyes on these legendary legs!

[blackkitty]

I'll have my mom take a pic tonight... I hope my legs don't disappoint!

[heavenly]

Very classy! I like a lot.

[Lauren88]

I love that dress!! Where is it from? I never know where to shop for cute dresses like that.

And, how was the date?!?!?!

[blackkitty]

Aug 30, 2012 8:38:10 GMT -5 Lauren88 said:

I love that dress!! Where is it from? I never know where to shop for cute dresses like that.

And, how was the date?!?!?!

It's from Macys - INC brand but it is several seasons old. They have a lot of cute dresses though