Really like a new guy, but need to slow it down...

[bullygirl979]

Personally, I would say that you are moving too fast. Personally, if I am around someone all the tmie because I am that into them, then I tend to ignore the warning signs or red flags that may arise. It is easier to see them and examine them if you are NOT around the person.

You obviously had a life before this guy, yes? So where did it go?

[jade28]

It is hard when you really like someone to not spend time with them but remember that what is ultimately best for you and the relationship is that you do limit your time together.

Do not see him every day. Plan a date or two every week at this stage. I think it's too early to be running errands together, etc. Fill your time with other friends, activities and hobbies (whatever you did before meeting him). It will be hard but just keep reminding yourself it is for the best. We all know relationships that move at warp speed never work!

[starryfish]

Aug 29, 2012 8:07:11 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Personally, I would say that you are moving too fast. Personally, if I am around someone all the tmie because I am that into them, then I tend to ignore the warning signs or red flags that may arise. It is easier to see them and examine them if you are NOT around the person.

You obviously had a life before this guy, yes? So where did it go?

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