Post by iheartrice on Aug 29, 2012 10:46:58 GMT -5
To my SO posse,
I must say goodbye to this amazing group for all the support and understanding the past year and a half.
My exH cyberstalked me. He found me on this forum (I use the same username for many accounts) and read every post I ever wrote here - Combining information from another site, he was able to put together a timeline of what I've been up to and then sent me txt msgs with the new info, I thought he had hired a PI. Very scary.
Best wishes to all, I will miss this place. -iheartrice
This. I'll never understand when people GBGBCN for something like this when a simple name change and keeping your personal info to yourself would easily solve this. Regardless, best of luck! I've been cyberstalked by my exH which is why I created a completely new name on this board and try to keep my personal info at a minimum.
Post by prettyinpearls on Aug 29, 2012 11:31:33 GMT -5
Change your name...wait a while to 'intro' or just start posting right of the bat. Just don't use a real avatar/siggy or give out personal details and you'll be fine.
Yea. I made the mistake of using the same name as I do everywhere else and was cyberstalked. So I changed my name. I don't use this name anywhere else. When I changed my name, I PMed a few people like scooby, who PMed a few more for me, to let the regulars know who I now was.
If I were you, I would just create a different name, one that is very different from what you would usually pick and post like you've always been there.
Also, I dont know if this helps since he's already read stuff but I went back and made all the posts under my prior name private so somehow he couldnt access them by just clicking on my name. It was scary as hell especially becasue I had revealed his drug use and sociopath ways on here and he sent me a long ranting email. I like to think this place is private but not really Making the posts private and changing your name should give you some peace of mind.
Maybe she's faking the GBCGBCN and coming back Come on... think people!!
I was thinking this as to why I went along with it. I would think her ex would be reading this too! I couldn't imagine being in her position though. I would'nt feel free and safe to posts.
Hello, ladies. Psycho ex husband here. I don't cyberstalk. Bottom feeding scavenger suitors like WB do though. Cheers!
Are you serious dude? Who's WB? Please explain how what you did WASN"T cyber-stalking? If you are divorced from iheartrice then why do you give a shit about what she puts on this site or any other site? Get a life and move on. What a loser!!
I think you made such a great decision to leave this asshole iheartrice! You go girl! ETA- I agree with the other posters, don't let this douche win! Stay!
"The unexamined life is not worth living." -Socrates
I merely examined, browsed, read, and studied. As a scholar and a gentleman I would never pounce. Exploration over exploitation, Ladies. I'm no hunter of women. I wont ever crouch hushed in dark corners outside your window at night. I wont ever stroke your leather bound body with my pinky while uttering ominous prologues. I wont even ever nervously put my arm around you and then tremble softly while watching Saw. That would be weird, right? Wouldn't it?