My younger sister is expecting! More cousins - yay! And she works for the Air Force and she just told me they extended paid leave from 6 weeks to 12 weeks.
And yesterday I braved it and went back to the Starbucks where the lady screamed nasty things to me and an employee and manager apologized to me. Apparently this isn't the first time that customer as "verbally abused" other customers. The manager wasn't on the floor when it happened and he said he would have asked her to leave if he was. The other employee said I felt so bad because your son looked so scared. Anyway, it was a small relief that I hadn't really done anything wrong to deserve her verbal attack.