And the paperwork ball is rolling...

[mclovin]

Sorry. The roller coaster ride isn't fun, but it won't last forever.

[lookingup]

I'm sorry you're going through this. It is a tough process no matter the circumstances.

That being said, please take some time for yourself, to figure out who you are again as a person, before you jump into another relationship. Regardless of how long you were checked out of the marriage before the split, you were still occupying the role of a wife.

I hope that you find happiness soon. These ladies are great, and we are always here for support.

[lookingup]

Aug 29, 2012 14:20:53 GMT -5 mp said:

Aug 29, 2012 14:10:01 GMT -5 lookingup said:

I'm sorry you're going through this. It is a tough process no matter the circumstances.

That being said, please take some time for yourself, to figure out who you are again as a person, before you jump into another relationship. Regardless of how long you were checked out of the marriage before the split, you were still occupying the role of a wife.

I hope that you find happiness soon. These ladies are great, and we are always here for support.

Oh for sure. I've been seeing a fantastic therapist and it's been a great (and some days tough!) journey the last 5 months with her - working on me. I am in a great place right now - and while I don't plan on jumping into a relationship - I know that when I get there I'll be ready to do it! Dating and learning about myself has been a fun & enlightening process, that's for sure...

That's great! I feel the same. I've been separated for nine months now, and I've had the time of my life while not being in a relationship. I'm glad you're working on yourself in therapy.