Post by MixedBerryJam on Feb 12, 2016 19:27:16 GMT -5
She is a pig. A. Pig. Your response was absofuckinglutely perfect. I am loathe to tell you what to do, but God I want you to get facebook to take that page down. If scanning/faxing them a copy of his death certificate is really all it takes, I say go for it. How can it make the situation worse, kwim? I want to kick your SIL in the fucking nuts. If only.
She's absolutely batshit crazy and I'd think anyone who sees her post would think the same.
This, too. I'm thinking you aren't the first person she's treated like this, and my money's on the people posting have at least a hint of why you've done what you've done.
Post by shostakovich on Feb 12, 2016 20:07:27 GMT -5
I'm so sorry, Karma.
I'm not trying to make you see a silver lining or anything, but from where I sit, her vile comments are great proof that cutting them off from J was the exact right thing to do. You trusted your gut, and your gut was SUPER RIGHT. Good job, girl.
Fuck her. She is an asshole of the highest degree. I know how upsetting that must be to read, but I hope it also solidified that you are doing the right thing staying far way from these people.
Post by speckledfrog on Feb 12, 2016 20:17:04 GMT -5
You do not deserve this. Not one iota of it.
I expect nothing less from these people because they are vile. I am so sorry you are hurting and I'm sorry they are pouring their acidic bullshit into that wound.
She's definitely proving that you're doing the right thing.
I wonder if she's lashing out because you handled the whole picking up your documents thing so well that fil didn't get to have his moment against you. Either way she's showing everyone how horrible she is.
Well, this answers any questions I had about whether they want to continue any sort of a relationship with J in the future. F them all. The entire family is toxic. Don't give them a chance to poison J.
I like the acid comment someone made on the first page. These people are not only toxic, they are corrosive.
They are such fucking horrible people. I'm so sorry. With every update I hate them more and more. From what I've seen on here you have been handling this so well. You are so strong. These are not people you need in your life or J's. Stay strong.
Post by cuddlyevil on Feb 12, 2016 21:45:00 GMT -5
OMG.
Remember that in situations like this, the person who is yelling about your wrongs is showing the world their true nature. Your true friends will see it for what it is.
Post by Miss Phryne Fisher on Feb 12, 2016 22:06:38 GMT -5
Good god those people are trash. I am so glad FB was not around when my dad died. His side of the family (not all of it, mostly his dad and SIL...my uncle is still good friends with my mom) would have pulled the same shit. Blamed my mom for everything. Well, it has been almost 14 years now and we have zero contact with them, and our lives are better for it. Yours will be the same with time. Seriously, fuck those people.
Post by pegasuskat on Feb 12, 2016 22:16:17 GMT -5
I am so sorry. You don't need to have any of the people making negative remarks in your life, and you should feel no guilt about cutting them out. I'm glad your SS is sticking up for you, he sounds like his mom raised him right. I've wondered how his relationship was with them, but it seems like he sees their true colors too. Don't stoop to their level. I wouldn't continue to respond and definatly contact fb about taking control of his page. Then print all the memories and delete. Praying for you.
Well, in one post, she has completely shown her friends how truly vile she is and she's affirmed your decision to keep J away from them. I'm sure neither of those brings you much comfort now, but it's got to be clear to anyone else close to this situation.
I'm so angry on your behalf right now that I can't even come up with a vicious enough curse for her. You are amazing, and she is essentially one of those flies who feed on elephant shit.