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[blackkitty]

If you are not interested in dating a pot smoker I would say cancel.
My last two boyfriends were both daily pot smokers and I don't recommend dating one FWIW

[heavenly]

I think it would bother me.

[liubotflittyfud]

It doesn't bother me, but then again I partake. I know many people who are regular smokers that function very well on a day to day basis. It all depends on what you want, what are your deal breakers? My deal breakers are alcoholics, so dating someone who drinks every day would not happen for me KWIM? I'd probably go for coffee because it's just coffee. You're not marrying the dude. See what he's like. I just know from experience that many regular smokers would not come off as a "stoner" especially if he has a job, takes care of his responsibilities, and isn't dressed like a hippie stereotype lol. Whatever you choose, it's your decision. Good luck

[achase123]

A daily potsmoker sounds like it's a huge part of his life. I think I'd be fine with occasional, recreational use but if he's admitting to it being this often it would make me wonder about his ambition.

Up to you, but if it were me I'd cancel.

[heyney]

It would be an issue for me, so I would cancel

[naeljun]

I would cancel. But I don't like it. I think it matters what your personal preference is

[turtle1120]

I would cancel. Daily would be too much for me to deal with.

[usedtobebear]

Send him my way to SLC, j/k...

I would say you should still go and see if there is a connection, if there is a connection and it was a deal breaker I'm sure he would cut back or stop altogether if he was really into you.

I'm totally opposite and hope to find someone who likes to partake, not daily, but occassionally would be ideal for me.

Keep us posted!

[roselis]

Personally, I would cancel.
I used to partake as my ex was a regular smoker. But now, I won't. I have no issues with it, or anyone who smokes it, but I don't want it around DS or in my home where DS sleeps.

[usedtobebear]

Aug 30, 2012 11:03:02 GMT -5 calle28 said:

Aug 30, 2012 11:00:21 GMT -5 usedtobebear said:

Send him my way to SLC, j/k...

I would say you should still go and see if there is a connection, if there is a connection and it was a deal breaker I'm sure he would cut back or stop altogether if he was really into you.

I'm totally opposite and hope to find someone who likes to partake, not daily, but occassionally would be ideal for me.

Keep us posted!

this is so interesting to me. i don't think we should date someone hoping they will change for us. right?

I guess it depends on the person. If I met someone I really liked and they didn't smoke, I would be okay not smoking if that was a deal breaker for them, it's not a huge deal to me, I enjoy it, but it's not the end of the world if I don't smoke, maybe this guy is the same way, maybe not...

[udscoobychick]

Aug 30, 2012 11:03:02 GMT -5 calle28 said:

Aug 30, 2012 11:00:21 GMT -5 usedtobebear said:

Send him my way to SLC, j/k...

I would say you should still go and see if there is a connection, if there is a connection and it was a deal breaker I'm sure he would cut back or stop altogether if he was really into you.

I'm totally opposite and hope to find someone who likes to partake, not daily, but occassionally would be ideal for me.

Keep us posted!

this is so interesting to me. i don't think we should date someone hoping they will change for us. right?

Yes, Calle. I agree completely. It's a disaster waiting to happen thinking that he'll cut back if he's into you. How many of our divorce stories start out with "well, I thought he would change once XYZ happened...."??

[stephbfan]

It wouldn't bother me if it was from time but every day? yeah, I wouldn't be down for that.