I feel that my H and I just have been butting heads on the stupidest things lately. It's like we are on separate pages. We haven't been in a fight per say, just bickering. I don't know what gives. I'm getting SO annoyed. I am sure I am partially to blame, but I work probably 20/25 more hours a week than he does right now and I feel I have to do ALL my stuff, ALL his stuff and ALL of our stuff and it's like pulling teeth to make him understand or realize I need more help. Even though I've told him point blank on things he could do to help me out (And give the exact things he can do so he's not confused) and he agrees but then wastes over half his day doing whatever he wants. I get he needs time to himself too and I'm not saying he doesn't deserve it, he does but it would be SO nice for him to just see my point every once and a while. I don't like when every conversation is ending in me being annoyed and him being annoyed at me right back. I know things will get easier when we aren't in limbo about his job situation, but for right now I am SO drained. He is an amazing husband don't get me wrong and does do a lot for us, but it's just lately that it's gotten out of hand. Ugh! Sorry, this got long.
So many ((hugs)) travelbug. That's hard and so frustrating. We are in a similar situation and have been since having C, although I will give my DH credit and say he works his but off both at work and home...I just get frustrated that the house take priority 99% of the time and it leaves me solo parenting a lot. I never get a break and it's exhausting. It's getting better and will get much better once we move but I feel you on feeling drained. Sorry friend.
Man cold has arrived. DH is coming home early and wants to take something to make him pass out and feel better. Must be nice...I had same cold, am pregnant, and still didn't get a break or any sympathy (Dah literally never gets sick so doesn't know how to be helpful when I am...and he gets annoyed that I get sick like an average person). Tonight and tomorrow shod be fun...I need to convince him he can't come to my appointment. I don't need to get this again and neither does C.
Apparently DH just came home to annoy me. He's currently working while sneezing and blowing his nose. He was supposed to come home and rest. If he gets me sick again (or C sick) I might need help burying his body. His actual words were "why stay at work sneezing and blowing my nose if I can do it at home?" Because we don't need your germs either!
I really need to be more sympathetic but after his attitude last week and being sick for over I week I don't think I have it in me.
I'm sorry travelbug and luv2rn4fun, H troubles are awful I hope they shape up soon.
We're supposed to get another winter storm tonight. I'm so sick of this weird weather. Literally the only snow we've gotten this year has been during storms.
In a silly vent: my H somehow manages to hog the sheets at night, but not the quilt. I never notice at night, but when I go to make the bed in the morning, the quilt is perfectly centered and the sheets are completely wonky. HOW IS THIS POSSIBLE?!
Petty vent here for sure.. But my H has been eating SO loudly lately when I'm trying to do something quiet in the living room. Just smacking his lips and saliva like I don't have ears. It makes me want to stab!
Fighting with H sucks travelbug. We had a little spat this weekend that arose from work too.
luv2rn4fun - That's frustrating! Hopefully he realizes how hard this is for you too.
The snow is out to get us katiek. Every time we try to go anywhere, it attacks! Sunday was 20cm and I think yesterday was another 10cm. How bad was it there?
amaranth - In the vein of loud eating H: DH slurps soup, he claims that is how you're supposed to eat it. WHY?
bk1 - Cold comfort I suppose, but at least you told her, even if it wasn't ideal.
suzv - It's really frustrating when work schedules clash. I don't get home until almost 11pm some nights while he often has to leave by 7:30am for work so we'll go days without a "real" conversation. Hopefully you'll find a way to make the new schedule work for the two of you.
I ordered Broncos Super Bowl stuff, and it finally arrived today. NONE OF IT FITS. The sweatshirt is way too small in the chest and way too big in the waist, and the leggings are baggy all over. I'm irrationally furious that I waited almost a month for stuff that doesn't even fit. FURIOUS.
I ordered Broncos Super Bowl stuff, and it finally arrived today. NONE OF IT FITS. The sweatshirt is way too small in the chest and way too big in the waist, and the leggings are baggy all over. I'm irrationally furious that I waited almost a month for stuff that doesn't even fit. FURIOUS.
That doesn't sound irrational. Of course you bought it wanting it to fit. Now, suing them would be irrational, lol, but not happy seems normal. Can you at least return it?
I ordered Broncos Super Bowl stuff, and it finally arrived today. NONE OF IT FITS. The sweatshirt is way too small in the chest and way too big in the waist, and the leggings are baggy all over. I'm irrationally furious that I waited almost a month for stuff that doesn't even fit. FURIOUS.
That doesn't sound irrational. Of course you bought it wanting it to fit. Now, suing them would be irrational, lol, but not happy seems normal. Can you at least return it?
I can return them, but they're both sold out so I can't reorder them in a different size or anything.