Omg, he's killing me. He just asked "what if we break the baby?"
It's going to be like Friends when you start telling people. They'll all group hug and you'll be standing off to the side cheering so you don't break baby. Lol
Congrats! And no one will blame you when you end up beating him with the bag of kale.
You know. The more I think about it maybe he's processing this a different way. He wants to be careful and its kind of endearing. Let him do this for a couple weeks so he can get it out of his system. Lol
You know. The more I think about it maybe he's processing this a different way. He wants to be careful and its kind of endearing. Let him do this for a couple weeks so he can get it out of his system. Lol
I think you're likely right. Which is why I'm (gently) giggling about his reaction here rather than getting mad or laughing at him or anything. He's excited but nervous and so am I. Unfortunately for him he doesn't have a board he can tell about this pregnancy. Thank goodness for you guys.
Oh, and I also meant to say that my boyfriend started that too about being super healthy while pregnant. I was totally on board with eating more vegetables and fruit and all of that.
But I did want sweets too and he was really annoying about it. Once, I had one chocolate chip cookie and then he hid them. I was pissed!
Is your doc cool? If so, make sure you take him to an appt. where he hears the "first trimester, you eat whatever sounds good that you can keep down," speech.
Is your doc cool? If so, make sure you take him to an appt. where he hears the "first trimester, you eat whatever sounds good that you can keep down," speech.
I don't really know, lol. Probably? I haven't really discussed pregnancy related things with her yet even though she's a fertility specialist in addition to being an OB-GYN. That was the next step we were going to take when we get back from our vacation next month. But then surprise surprise, we seem to have gotten pregnant when not fully expecting it. At this point I pretty much thought medical assistance would be a necessity. Obviously I was wrong, lol.
My H read a ton of baby books when I was pregnant with S and would spew alllllll these facts that I didn't want to hear. When I went off on him, he was like "don't you want me to be informed?!" Be informed all you want, fucker, just leave me out of it, lol.
Your H will eventually get over the "OMG baby! What do we do?!" feeling. Eat all the delicious things you can stomach
Hopefully he calms down when it all sinks in some more!
Mine would 100% be the same: he's already saying we need to cut down/out on wine and eat super healthily all the time while TTC and I'm all "9 months is going to be long enough, I'll drink till it's pink, pass me the cheese, thank you very much".
Omg, he's killing me. He just asked "what if we break the baby?"
awwww, he'll get over it. Congrats!
My H was scared to have sex the whole time with my first. We had it maybe 3 times the whole pregnancy. By the third kid, he was all over me, business as usual, lol.