What?! I thought he was even more pissed off than you were!
he was!!! i don't know what the hell happened.
AS FAR AS I KNOW, the guy texted H to ask if we could return the air mattress we borrowed the last time my sister visited. i THOUGHT h was just going to meet him to drop off the mattress, but it turned into a meeting for lunch thing. tonight was supposed to be trivia night but most of the team bailed, so h and guy decided to get a movie instead.
the guy texted me today because i had an appointment with my therapist last night and he wanted to know if my therapist still thought it was necessary for us to stay away from each other (eta: because what ANYBODY BUT ME thinks is important is all tha tmatters). i was pissed and responded, "what difference does it make what she said? you don't do it anyway"
i was doing SO WELL not responding until easter and he sent me something guilt-inducing that i totally don't remember now.
Just block his number. BLOCK IT.
i did, but then i unblocked him because i was POSITIVE he was going to text me that he was coming over and i wouldn't get it. all i did was worry that he was going to show up at my house
because i'm afraid he will show up here and i wont' get any warning
But then you responded to his text, and now your H had lunch and a movie with him??
responding to his text was absolutely a mistake and it's not happening again. h having lunch and movie with him is on him. h says that he wants to hang out with him again.
Why, in a universe where every form of contact can be blocked, does no one ever block a bitch?
Seriously. DH and I broke up with some friends back in December, and the wife wouldn't leave me alone about it. 48 hours into the barrage of texts, we both blocked their phone numbers and FB accounts.