Friend didn't invite me to ladies night and never does

[Deleted]

I am so upset, this girl from my church who I thought was my friend had a ladies night get together and posted pictures on FB, and when I asked what it was for and if it was dress shopping she said "No. We were hanging out. And you dont need to be at every social thing I do, ok? Im sorry, but no." What the heck? She hasnt ever invited me to a single social thing shes done, ever. And then I said well sorry for asking I just felt excluded. She said theres no reason you should have felt excluded. But isnt that what you just did? And then to follow it up with an exclusive remark of I dont need to be at every social event you do. Wth?

[themysteriouswife]

I agree with your friend, but she doesn't get to be a snatch. You asked a question about the evening for conversation. You didn't ask to come over. Sorry your feelings are hurt. It sounds like you have a reason to not be friends with her.

ETA: sorry my post sounds very assholish. I wasn't trying to come across so rude.

[cabbagecabbage]

Well, she definitely is not your friend. I'm sorry but that's nastier than I'd reply to an enemy. You're lucky to dodge her if that's her attitude buy it still stings.

[alzi]

She's a dick. Eff her.

[knx9211]

Is this the same one who didn't invite you to her wedding? But you wanted to crash it anyway?

[sofamonkey]

Yeah, her reaction is a bit over the top and mean. Plan your own night out and invite people you will have fun with. She's clearly not on that list.

[meganew]

She sounds like an asshole. You didn't say "hey, why wasn't I invited!" so I don't see why she responded the way she did. I would have told her to fuck off.

[meganew]

Apr 30, 2016 9:56:18 GMT -5 Queen Dick, Hibernating Bear said:

Did your mom take your cell phone?

I'm starting to think I need a refresher for who this poster is

[tictac]

But do you think Johnny Galecki has a big penis?

[circa1978]

If she's never invited you to anything social, why did you expect to be invited to this? Also, she doesn't sound like a friend at all.

[greenlight]

Im sorry.
She is making it abundantly clear that she does not consider you a friend. Cut ties and move on.

[marylennox]

Yikes.

Done with her. Bye.

[knx9211]

Just because she goes to the same church doesn't make her your friend. Sorry.

[lilac05]

Apr 30, 2016 9:56:18 GMT -5 Queen Dick, Hibernating Bear said:

Did your mom take your cell phone?

Sounds familiar!  I think there was another post about church stuff, too, and I totally fell for it.

Just in case...This is not a friend.  I don't even invite my BFF to all social things at my house, but IF she called me on it (which she never would), that would NOT be my response.

[Deleted]

She said she was my friend and always will be after I apologized, said I felt excluded and said I just want to know that Im your friend
She has also said shes my friend and loves me multiple times in the past, as well as saying hi nice to see you at church

[hisno1girl]

Apr 30, 2016 10:06:51 GMT -5 @anna871 said:

She said she was my friend and always will be after I apologized, said I felt excluded and said I just want to know that Im your friend

YOU apologized?

Also, she's lying. She's not your friend.

[cabbagecabbage]

What? You apologized? I say, "Hi, nice to see you." to everyone I know. That is not friendship. That's basic courtesy.

Do you have other friends? You need to stop talking to this person outside pleasantries and I wonder if you're begging for something that doesn't exist and getting the polite (until she's nasty) brush off.

[atlas]

If this isn't a huge multi board, multi year MUD story. You seriously need to drop your church friends. They all suck.

[shopgirl07]

This again?

[Deleted]

Apr 30, 2016 10:17:16 GMT -5 cabbagecabbage said:

What? You apologized? I say, "Hi, nice to see you." to everyone I know. That is not friendship. That's basic courtesy.

Do you have other friends? You need to stop talking to this person outside pleasantries and I wonder if you're begging for something that doesn't exist and getting the polite (until she's nasty) brush off.

She has said she was my friend multiple times as webb as hugging me, giving me rides home, and making plans to hang out

[bab]

LOL she "says she's your friend?"

***spoiler alert***



She's not.

[jlt19]

Apr 30, 2016 10:01:32 GMT -5 Queen Dick, Hibernating Bear said:

Apr 30, 2016 9:57:26 GMT -5 meganew said:

I'm starting to think I need a refresher for who this poster is

The screen name doesn't even matter. Lol. It's the fantastical stories. And they always involve a church friend for some reason.

And the 3 posts. And the registration date of April 26.

I thought we were past this.

[cabbagecabbage]

Apr 30, 2016 10:28:13 GMT -5 @anna871 said:

Apr 30, 2016 10:17:16 GMT -5 cabbagecabbage said:

What? You apologized? I say, "Hi, nice to see you." to everyone I know. That is not friendship. That's basic courtesy.

Do you have other friends? You need to stop talking to this person outside pleasantries and I wonder if you're begging for something that doesn't exist and getting the polite (until she's nasty) brush off.

She has said she was my friend multiple times as webb as hugging me, giving me rides home, and making plans to hang out

Plans only or do you guys actually hang out? Her response was so harsh that I can only imagine that either she hates you and is polite out of some churchy obligation or you have continually asked way too much of her frienship. Whatever it is, the balance is way off if you are asking for her reassurance after she practically spit on you publicly on social media. Either way, this person is NOT your friend. Actions not words.

[mx27]

LOL @ making plans to hang out.

[Deleted]

Apr 30, 2016 10:32:26 GMT -5 cabbagecabbage said:

Apr 30, 2016 10:28:13 GMT -5 @anna871 said:

She has said she was my friend multiple times as webb as hugging me, giving me rides home, and making plans to hang out

Plans only or do you guys actually hang out? Her response was so harsh trWe hat I can only imagine that either she hates you and is polite out of some churchy obligation or you have continually asked way too much of her frienship. Whatever it is, the balance is way off if you are asking for her reassurance after she practically spit on you publicly on social media. Either way, this person is NOT your friend. Actions not words.

We have actually hung out, and I dont continually ask too much of her friendship

[fuckyourcouch]

Saying "hi nice to see you"

You guys are practically married!

[cabbagecabbage]

Well enjoy this "friendship" then and keep defending it if you want. I'm sure she'd do the same for you...

[kayl84]

Church bitches be dramatic, yo. She isn't your friend, because friends don't pull that kind of shit & act like a CUNexTuesday. .

[Jalapeñomel]

Apr 30, 2016 10:01:32 GMT -5 Queen Dick, Hibernating Bear said:

Apr 30, 2016 9:57:26 GMT -5 meganew said:

I'm starting to think I need a refresher for who this poster is

The screen name doesn't even matter. Lol. It's the fantastical stories. And they always involve a church friend for some reason.

And people are still responding to her! Lol

[mcsangel2]

Stop feeding the troll, people!