S/O Poll #1 - Your Level of Interest

[sfy]

If you only had sex with your partner with no regard whatsoever for his/her desires, how frequently would you have sex?

I have switched up the poll options a bit to reflect some of the input from yesterday. 

hamster

[sfy]

May 12, 2016 10:52:57 GMT -5 @kirkette said:

Still no 3-4/ week option  (wilted)

Damn it.  I thought I covered everyone lol.  Sorry!

[ijack]

I have no sex drive. There is nothing that makes me want to have sex :/

[sfy]

May 12, 2016 12:07:57 GMT -5 ijack said:

I have no sex drive. There is nothing that makes me want to have sex :/

I don't want to like this, but thank you for responding. 

[closertofine]

It is absolutely incredible what my drive is right now compared to say, 8 months ago! I'll just leave it at that

[ijack]

May 12, 2016 14:07:20 GMT -5 sfy said:

May 12, 2016 12:07:57 GMT -5 ijack said:

I have no sex drive. There is nothing that makes me want to have sex :/

I don't want to like this, but thank you for responding. 

I've come to terms with it. Yeah, I'd like it to be different (or more H would) but I went off meds to see if got better and it did but then I was BSC. So I'd rather be sane and never have sex again.

[rootbeerfloat]

May 12, 2016 14:14:00 GMT -5 closertofine said:

It is absolutely incredible what my drive is right now compared to say, 8 months ago! I'll just leave it at that

Feel free to ignore, but are you dating?

[closertofine]

May 12, 2016 14:18:44 GMT -5 rootbeerfloat said:

May 12, 2016 14:14:00 GMT -5 closertofine said:

It is absolutely incredible what my drive is right now compared to say, 8 months ago! I'll just leave it at that

Feel free to ignore, but are you dating?

I am. Eek! It's just new and casual at this point (and totally has to work around my 70+% custody arrangement), but I'm having fun.

[pinkdutchtulips]

May 12, 2016 12:07:57 GMT -5 ijack said:

I have no sex drive. There is nothing that makes me want to have sex :/

I was like this from before dd was born until I left my now xh. There was a gap bt 2003 and 2014 where sex was the dead last thing on my mind. It's a miracle we conceived dd. Also explains why it a took a year vs a couple of months

[sfy]

May 13, 2016 0:54:33 GMT -5 @lauralynne said:

I would want every night to help fall asleep (I sleep so much better!) and the occasional nooner and throw in one "2am, hey there, are you awake too?" And at least the occasional morning shower quickie

My husband is jealous of your husband .

[scm1011]

Honestly, I'd be good with once a month at this point. I think TTTC/IF ruined sex for me. Hopefully that will change with time.