NFBR. I'm nervous! **Updated**

[misshark122]

My heart is beating really fast. Anxiety. Apparently I'm nervous about going into work today to deal with the devil's spawn. I'm going to quit today but I am more nervous about what I am going to say to HER boss, or really even to her. I need to keep my cool but I'm afraid I am going to want to go off on her. I know that won't do any good though.... right? Other than make me feel good? lol.

*************** UPDATE:

She wanted to talk to me as soon as I got in. She acted innocent like she had nothing to do with the part time job fiasco, etc. I didn't go off like I was worried I would, but I didn't hold back either.... I just seriously couldn't look her in her face and listen to her continue to act like she did everything she could and like she didn't throw me under the bus (with LIES no less!) I told her I knew everything she said about me - that I wasn't going to tell her how I Knew or the specifics of what I knew, but I knew everything and I was disappointed that as my supervisor she never came to me with any issues, even though less than a month ago she gave me an eval with no concerns. She kept playing innocent the entire freaking time! I also basically told her I didn't believe a word she said and that I'm not sure if she even knows what the word honest means. Oh and she seriously asked me if I was listening at the door and if that's how I knew what was said... lol. Really? Anyway she has been in her supervisor's office for the past hour doing damage control I am sure.

I probably should have kept my cool just a LITTLE bit more than I did, but oh well, what's done is done..... two weeks notice officially in. I do feel a lot better. Still a little anxious but that's because I share an office with her for the next 2 weeks.

And I know you guys are right, I am convinced that they will never get rid of her or see her for what she is, so what's the point.

[busybodyk]

Breath deeply and reassure yourself that you are doing the right thing. Good luck!

[tinybride]

Yes. When I quit in December (after being there 8 years) I ended up just keeping my cool and giving my feedback on some things that needed to change. I was unhappy for a number of years there and always thought that when the time came to quit, I would really speak my mind, but in the end I was like meh. What do I care anymore? I'm going to just give my opinion on some matters in a professional way that I can only hope will help my other co-workers and move on.

[adlove]

Good luck misshark!! I agree with everyone else, just take a deep breath and remember how happy you'll be after all of this is over!

[veruca5839]

Good luck!

[natablue]

You can do it!! Good luck. I think you will feel SO much better afterwards. Give us an update later!

[joanis018]

I feel ya- I get really nervous about stuff like that as well! Good luck girlie!!! ({) (})

[esynergy]

Good luck and let us know how it goes!

[bethaboo]

Good luck! Be calm, express what you need to and then smile when you leave today, knowing your time there is limited.

[kkloth]

Good luck! Let us know how it goes!

[boston340]

I hope it goes smoothly for you and you can move on from this job. Do you have something else lined up or are you still looking? Hang in there!

[majick143]

I can relate MissHark, I definitely feel nervous with these kinds of things too. Mav is right though, in the grand scheme of it all, this is just a blip. Think of how wonderful it'll feel to not have to worry about it anymore!

Good Luck!

[Deleted]

You are better than her so don't let her have the satisfaction of seeing you unnerved. It may help to prepare a bullet-point list or something so you can keep the discussion streamlined and unemotional.

[xokell2]

you can do it! good luck

[misshark122]

Update at the top!

[joanis018]

Glad it's over!! Hopefully these next two weeks will fly by and then you never have to think of her again.

[monsterellachz]

Good for you for standing up for yourself and telling her exactly how you feel! This woman sounds like a piece of work and you deserve better than to have to deal with her B.S.

[busybodyk]

Glad you got to get out how you felt. I hope she feels like a total jackass. Hope your final 2 weeks are bearable

[veruca5839]

Good for you! Hope the next 2 weeks fly by!

[photon]

great job, hark! you totally took control of a very difficult to manage situation. you should celebrate