**seattleaerie**

[sarack]

haven't heard from you in a while.. is everything ok?

[seattleaerie]

AE is alter ego.

I'm doing alright. It's hard trying not to bring him, coworker, into my life like I have in the past. My H and I have been doing better and been able to go out on a couple dates while leaving DC with a friend. It also helped that for the last 2 weeks he was on vacation so I didn't have to see him and since I wasn't seeing him I wasn't texting him about things either. He also has a second job now so he hasn't been available to go to things with us like he used to.

My H and I have also had a couple talks about our relationship and where we stand on things and I think that has helped us too. I didn't bring this crush up but I'm not sure that would have helped anything.

We seem to be more on the same page, H and I, and understanding each others feelings more. Work has been less stressful and our families have quieted down for the time being so I think that also helps everything out a bit.

[sarack]

glad that everything is working itself out. the grass isn't greener on the other side, it's green where you water it. remember to water your own garden before snooping into others..

i agree bringing up the crush wouldn't help, and i hope you're able to distance yourself for good from that person.

good luck.