Post by formerlyak on Sept 4, 2012 16:06:56 GMT -5
We got to that point about 2-3 months in. But my time has always been limited because I have my ds all be 8 days a month, so if we wanted to spend time together we had to do it when we could. I am also working on my MBA, so between homework and stuff for my home, those 8 days filled up fast. We would go grocery shopping together -- drop my stuff off at my house and then go back to his house. Or he'd work on things he needed to do at his house while I sat on his couch with my laptop and did homework. Then we'd take a break to walk to the beach or grab dinner.
H and I still don't run errands together. That is my personal time out of the house. I mean if we are going somewhere together and I need to swing by the bank we will, however we never make a point of running errands together.
Post by starburst604 on Sept 4, 2012 16:31:08 GMT -5
We started doing it a lot more after we made the decision to live together. It was something that bothered me a bit earlier in my relationship, that we weren't doing it because for me tha had been one of the coupley things I'd liked doing. I think even when move in there will be plenty of days we'll do our own thing. I doubt we'll belong to the same gym, I don't need to watch him get his hair cut etc. I like having my alone time too.