daycare potential situation

[hubes]

We started to Potty train T this weekend. He did okay, not great, but he met the requirements for going to daycare in underwear.

I told that to his head teacher today and told her that if if was a big deal to just put him back in diapers- I would rather have everyone on board than make this a terrible experience. She said it would be no problem and not to worry.

I got there just a few minutes early today, and a helper was putting Ts underwear and shorts on in the classroom. She told me about his accidents and handed me his bag. As I was turning to leave (and chasing T out the door,) I noticed that one of his diapers was laying in the bathroom door, like it had just been taken off him.

I should have asked right then, but T was halfway down the hall. I know this helper to be a bit of a liar and a sneak as well.

What do you all think?

[Deleted]

Your DCP is a liar and a sneak?

[hubes]

One of the helpers at the center. NOT his normal teacher. She is rarely in his room.

[hubes]

She told me he had two accidents, but there is only one set of soiled clothes.

Who wants to bet he was in a diaper all damn day? Which is fine. JUST DON'T PRETEND LIKE HE WASN'T.

[Deleted]

Frankly, he just doesn't sound ready to spend his day in underwear. But the helper is totally bullshitting you.

[aldoussnow]

Lurker, but I am a preschool teacher so I was just wondering, maybe he was in a diaper for nap? What time did you pick him up? Was it possible he just woke-up? When we are dealing with kids who are potty training we usually put a diaper/pull-up on at nap and change it when nap is finished.

[angelaa73]

Diaper for nap?

[hubes]

I picked him up at 4:30. Nap time is over at 2:30.