Confession. Maybe flameful.

[dakotadangerdog]

I really really really really really really really really really like Cf guy. A lot.



Possibly flameful because this is the dude that has 3 kids. And I have no kid experience.

[doriswe]

Is he moving???

[lovelybb]

Sept 5, 2012 11:04:09 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Not flameful unless he's a child molester of those kids or treats you like shit. DILFs need love too

Glad you like him

Nope not flameful... D has three and I have zero kid experience also. He's been great at helping me navigate it all! Oh and he's such a DILF... yummy

[doriswe]

I have two kids and I'm pretty damn awesome....and you love me, right???

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 5, 2012 11:06:07 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Is he moving???

Eventually, yes he's moving back home. Funny thing is though, I've been planning on moving to the same city for the past year. So if things worked out and the timing was right that could work out really well.

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 5, 2012 11:10:30 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I have two kids and I'm pretty damn awesome....and you love me, right???

Of course!!!

[achase123]

That's awesome you're that into him!

[prettyinpearls]

I'm not understanding how this is maybe flameful? Like pp said, as long as he's a good dad to those 3 kids, go for it! Lots of women wouldn't give a father of 3 a chance, especially if she doesn't have kids herself.

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 5, 2012 11:15:31 GMT -5 achase123 said:

That's awesome you're that into him!

yeah I'm pretty pumped about it. Like, I've had no interest in dating anyone that I've met in almost a year. I would totally be his girlfriend. Swoon. Haha.

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 5, 2012 11:16:11 GMT -5 prettyinpearls said:

I'm not understanding how this is maybe flameful? Like pp said, as long as he's a good dad to those 3 kids, go for it! Lots of women wouldn't give a father of 3 a chance, especially if she doesn't have kids herself.

well when I first posted about it people were making it sound like an issue. I'm really not super into kids, but I think it's just due to never having been around them much.

[chrissie3416]

I think its awesome. My bf had never been into anyone with kids or dated anyone with kids before either and hes great with my DD. Its all a learning process. As long as you guys take things with the kids slow and communicate...things will prob be ok!

[dakotadangerdog]

Oh we'd take it super slow. They live in a different state and only come out here for the summer, so unless we flew out there I wouldn't meet them for like I dunno, 9 months? Plus they are older, 9 (twins) and I think 7, so I dunno seems like in some ways it would be easier and in some ways possibly harder! haha like they're more likely to not like me. And is it weird that I'm only 16 yrs older than his oldest kids?? haha

[chrissie3416]

It's all going to be in your approach to the kids and the relationship you try to build with them. And remember, kids are like dogs...they smell fear lol!

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 5, 2012 11:44:43 GMT -5 chrissie3416 said:

It's all going to be in your approach to the kids and the relationship you try to build with them. And remember, kids are like dogs...they smell fear lol!

THIS IS WHAT SCARES ME lol!!! I am so terribly awkward in general, and intimidated by the whole kid thing, THEY'RE GONNA KNOW!

Luckily I have a long time before I need to worry about it haha. We have talked about it a little bit, just like in general not like "us specifically" but he is smart about it, has a general rule about how long to date a girl before introducing them to his kids, stuff like that, which is a good sign I think. And he has a good relationship with his ex-wife which is awesome.

[lovelybb]

Sept 5, 2012 11:42:24 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

Oh we'd take it super slow. They live in a different state and only come out here for the summer, so unless we flew out there I wouldn't meet them for like I dunno, 9 months? Plus they are older, 9 (twins) and I think 7, so I dunno seems like in some ways it would be easier and in some ways possibly harder! haha like they're more likely to not like me. And is it weird that I'm only 16 yrs older than his oldest kids?? haha

Nope, it's not weird... I'm only 18 years older than his oldest. D's kids are older... 13, 15 and 18 and I have to say I prefer it. They're much more independent so we can actually have the opportunity to go on a date every once in a blue moon when I visit.

[blackkitty]

Do you LUUUUUUUVVVVVVVVVVV him though?

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 5, 2012 14:45:57 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Do you LUUUUUUUVVVVVVVVVVV him though?

ERMAGERD I LURRRVE HIM SER MURCH



but really though, he is super cool and I really like him. I am super pumped. I definitely think it's possible that this could go somewhere. ITS KINDA FREAKIN ME OUT!

[blackkitty]

Sept 5, 2012 15:02:47 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

Sept 5, 2012 14:45:57 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Do you LUUUUUUUVVVVVVVVVVV him though?

ERMAGERD I LURRRVE HIM SER MURCH



but really though, he is super cool and I really like him. I am super pumped. I definitely think it's possible that this could go somewhere. ITS KINDA FREAKIN ME OUT!

YAY!!!
I luuuuvvvv that you luuuvvvvvv him!!
I'm happy that you are happy :heart:

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 5, 2012 15:03:45 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Sept 5, 2012 15:02:47 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

ERMAGERD I LURRRVE HIM SER MURCH



but really though, he is super cool and I really like him. I am super pumped. I definitely think it's possible that this could go somewhere. ITS KINDA FREAKIN ME OUT!

YAY!!!
I luuuuvvvv that you luuuvvvvvv him!!
I'm happy that you are happy

Thanks BK I wish other things in my life were going as well! work has me so stressed out that I can't eat and it's really not good. I feel like it makes me look like a weak crazy person but he's really sweet about it. He's really easy to talk to. It's a nice change, usually I totally fail at talking to people about anything serious.

[naeljun]

I think it is pretty awesome you like him.

[doriswe]

O.M.G. yoouuuuu liiikkkeeee himmmmmm, yoooouuurrrr gonnnnaaaa kiiiisssss himmmmm

[cemacmil]

Sept 5, 2012 11:16:11 GMT -5 prettyinpearls said:

I'm not understanding how this is maybe flameful? Like pp said, as long as he's a good dad to those 3 kids, go for it! Lots of women wouldn't give a father of 3 a chance, especially if she doesn't have kids herself.

Completely this, not flameful! Also, it's not like you have to be anyone but who you are around them just like the guy - I can tell you (from the other side I guess) that he is probably not looking for you to fill any sort of role. If it happens with the kids, just be you.

Happy for you too!

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 5, 2012 17:29:56 GMT -5 doriswe said:

O.M.G. yoouuuuu liiikkkeeee himmmmmm, yoooouuurrrr gonnnnaaaa kiiiisssss himmmmm

you know it! I wanna kiss him riiiight now. For daaayyyyzzzz