Xh's bff just sent me a fb message

[Bernadine]

Asking me to call him when I get a chance.

I'm feeling all panicky and dreading it. I haven't really talked to him (bff) at all since I left xh. I can't imagine what he wants.

[Deleted]

Sept 5, 2012 14:23:35 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

I'd ask him what he wants and not call. If it's important he can call you.

Agreed.

[Bernadine]

I changed my number, he doesn't have it.

Derrrr, I didn't even think of just replying to the message.

[bullygirl979]

Sept 5, 2012 14:24:40 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Sept 5, 2012 14:23:35 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

I'd ask him what he wants and not call. If it's important he can call you.

Agreed.

:Y: :Y:

[usedtobebear]

Holy shit, if this were me I would be completely freaking out too... EEEK!! Good Luck! I would try and avoid that situation at all costs, ugh! Sorry you have to deal with this!

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 5, 2012 14:25:31 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

I changed my number, he doesn't have it.

Derrrr, I didn't even think of just replying to the message.

hahahahaha

[Deleted]

Sept 5, 2012 14:25:31 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

I changed my number, he doesn't have it.

Derrrr, I didn't even think of just replying to the message.

Does your exh have your number? Do you think it was just a ploy to get it?

[Bernadine]

I'm weirdly shaken up by this.

I just replied and said I was at work, and not sure I'd be able to talk tonight, what's up.

[Bernadine]

Sept 5, 2012 14:29:24 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Sept 5, 2012 14:25:31 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

I changed my number, he doesn't have it.

Derrrr, I didn't even think of just replying to the message.

Does your exh have your number? Do you think it was just a ploy to get it?

I'm not sure he knows I got a new phone- he's still paying for my old phone, which I turn on and check for messages once a week or so.

[wingingitinmotown]

Sept 5, 2012 14:32:34 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Sept 5, 2012 14:30:23 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

I'm weirdly shaken up by this.

I just replied and said I was at work, and not sure I'd be able to talk tonight, what's up.

Whatever it is, it's not your problem anymore. Repeat to yourself, "This is not my problem anymore. He is not my problem anymore"

This. I understand being shaken up...I got the same way when process server called me looking for XBIL. But like MCC said, it's not your problem, HE'S not your problem.