forgetting an anniversary....

[jennlin]

it "counts" that my h forgot our anniversary, right?

we got asked to hang out with two different groups of friends on sunday...and when i asked h if he wanted to go to them, he said "well we promised X and X that we would go with them........."

and i said, "oh really, we promised? cause i wanted to go to X"....he said "why would you want to go to X?" "what day is it sunday??!" "ohhhh......"

i told him that "counts" as him forgetting our anniversary, and he says it doesn't "count" unless the day passes and he doesn't do anything....

regardless, he's a jerkfacepoopbutt.



......... and i haven't bought him anything as a gift, either. eek!

[Deleted]

I've always wondered, what day do you count as your anniversary? Your court house wedding day or your pretty pretty princess day?

[georgeharrison]

Did he realize that day was your anniversary when he heard the date? If so, then I don't think it counts - but I would still jokingly say that it did. James, the other day, claimed to not be able to remember if we were married in '03 or '04. I jokingly got mad at him and claimed to be appalled that he couldn't remember the best day of his life. I agree with your h, it only counts if it goes completely by with no acknowledgement.

[Deleted]

Oh and FWIW, my parents have been happily married going on 33 years and they can't remember what day they got married. My dad says it's 10/4 and my mom says 10/3.

A few years back my dad went to the bank to look at their marriage certificate and then they both forgot again.

[jennlin]

Sept 6, 2012 10:08:06 GMT -5 @uwhuskygirl said:

I've always wondered, what day do you count as your anniversary? Your court house wedding day or your pretty pretty princess day?

courthouse--that was the whole point of us getting married "early", so we can have the fun anniversary.

Sept 6, 2012 10:23:40 GMT -5 georgeharrison said:

Did he realize that day was your anniversary when he heard the date?

i don't remember now exactly if i only said sunday, or if i said the 9th...or if he said it... i was just upset that he completely forgot about it.

and yah, i know "down the road" it doesn't really matter, but we're only on 3 years.

[BlackCanary]

Personally, I say it's forgotten when the day has passed. Sadly, I sometimes forget when ours is. Someone will ask and I will blank, usually when DH is there. Oops!

[FrozenSunshine]

Only counts if the day is past.

[jennlin]

booo. you guys are all taking his side.

[madDawg228]

Sept 6, 2012 10:45:17 GMT -5 FrozenSunshine said:

Only counts if the day is past.

+1

Sometimes it's easy to forget what day of the week holidays/special days fall on He gets a pass especially since he kinda caught himself!

[Deleted]

It only REALLY counts if its day of and he hadn't remembered. BUT, I would STILL give him utter harassment for it!! That would make him a jerkfacepoopbutt for SURE.

Jennuine - angry face

[jennlin]

Sept 6, 2012 12:54:28 GMT -5 spunbutterfly said:

It counts that he forgot.

in a zombie apocalypse, i'd come back to save you.

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Sept 6, 2012 13:30:04 GMT -5 jennlin said:

Sept 6, 2012 12:54:28 GMT -5 spunbutterfly said:

It counts that he forgot.

in a zombie apocalypse, i'd come back to save you.

That's fine. I don't want to be saved anyway.

[jennlin]

Sept 6, 2012 13:31:29 GMT -5 @uwhuskygirl said:

Sept 6, 2012 13:30:04 GMT -5 jennlin said:

in a zombie apocalypse, i'd come back to save you.

That's fine. I don't want to be saved anyway.

good. i'll use you as bait so that i can save spun.

[Deleted]

Sept 6, 2012 13:32:19 GMT -5 jennlin said:

Sept 6, 2012 13:31:29 GMT -5 @uwhuskygirl said:

That's fine. I don't want to be saved anyway.

good. i'll use you as bait so that i can save spun.

:Y:

[Deleted]

Sept 6, 2012 13:30:04 GMT -5 jennlin said:

Sept 6, 2012 12:54:28 GMT -5 spunbutterfly said:

It counts that he forgot.

in a zombie apocalypse, i'd come back to save you.

Would you at least give me a heads up that the apocalypse had started? I mean, I half agreed.

[karebear219]

H can't remember what day, but he remembers it was the last week end in February. How random is that?

[jennlin]

Sept 6, 2012 14:58:15 GMT -5 @ksta said:

Sept 6, 2012 13:30:04 GMT -5 jennlin said:

in a zombie apocalypse, i'd come back to save you.

Would you at least give me a heads up that the apocalypse had started? I mean, I half agreed.

i'll save you second.

[sarack]

he only remembered because you reminded him.

[jennlin]

Sept 6, 2012 21:17:21 GMT -5 sarack said:

he only remembered because you reminded him.

THANK YOU.

[jennlin]

Sept 7, 2012 12:14:11 GMT -5 spunbutterfly said:

Sept 6, 2012 13:30:04 GMT -5 jennlin said:

in a zombie apocalypse, i'd come back to save you.

I think I read the original one but didn't have a chance to respond (before it was edited), cause I think I was confused whether you'd come eat my brains or save me.

But I agree with sarack. He only remembered cause you reminded him, that's forgetting.

haha yeah, that's why i decided to edit. i won't eat your braynz. pinky swear.

[niq]

I almost made plans to play video games with BIL on our anniversary (there's a game that comes out that day). BIL had to remind me .

I mean, we've made reservations and I have a gift. But still ... fail.