I am so weirded out.

[ErinExpat]

Does he have a very common name, where he could actually be himself?

His follow-up messages are very weird, for sure.

[ErinExpat]

Ah, ok. Sorry. Reading comp fail.

I think your gut instinct is right. How bizarre!

[snorky]

I'd say that this is a real reason to be freaked out. He is sketchy as fuck. Kudos for checking him out before you met him.

[happywife]

Nope nope nope.

[sproctopus]

Trust your gut here.

He's weird and it would creep me out too.

[RoxMonster]

i would go with your gut here. You searched his number because you initially felt something wonky about the situation--what gave you that vibe? Your instinct was obviously spot on; he is being super weird and sketchy about this. No go.

[arpb14]

Hard pass.

[adhdfashion]

Follow your gut.

[pandora]

Nope. Block him.

[bonquiqui]

Definitely block. My guess is that he is married, and doesn't want to get caught.

[Deleted]

Nope

[sofamonkey]

Unless he gave you a kidney, you don't owe him a dang thing. Even if he did, a card (without a return address) would suffice.

[statlerwaldorf]

So am I the only one who wants her to call so I can hear his bullshit story?

But yeah I'd run away from that.

[TR]

Did he think you two were going to meet up and you wouldn't notice? lol he's a weirdo AND a dummy.

[doglove]

Ugh, sorry you got no resolution from this clusterfu@k. His name was different too than when he told you??

[cuddlyevil]

Aug 5, 2016 7:14:18 GMT -5 TR said:

Did he think you two were going to meet up and you wouldn't notice? lol he's a weirdo AND a dummy.

"Wait, you're not Bill. But sure, let's grab a drink."

Yeah that's totally going to work. LOL.

Go with your gut mp.

[JLV]

He sounds super shady. Definitely go with your gut.

[sacattack]

Can you call him so we can find out how he possibly justified this? :-)

And for whats it worth - there are too many other options out there to deal with the creepy ones. Good call!

[Aloe Vera]

I am curious to know what gave you the weird vibe at first.

But yeah, it sounds like he is married.
No need to call him. I am pretty sure his explanation would be he uses someone else's pictures so that his friends/coworkers don't see he is on a dating profile hoping you would buy this story.

[mcsangel2]

And that he wanted you to call because he didn't want anything in writing (texts).

[Champagne Supernova]

Um, no.

Trust your instincts. This guy is shady, shady, shady!

[ladyk]

I had a guy use his cousin's pictures on a dating site. I didn't feel anything was wrong about him so we agreed to meet for coffee. It felt off when I met him because he looked a lot like his pictures but not exactly (and not in the 5 years/50 pounds ago way). So I called him on it. He admitted they were of his cousin, he, himself was married and lived in the town over instead of where he said. I said to him "You've got to be f-ing kidding me", picked up my stuff and walked out. I reported his profile and let all of my local single friends know.

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[kevin arnold]

Aug 5, 2016 9:41:21 GMT -5 ladyk said:

I had a guy use his cousin's pictures on a dating site. I didn't feel anything was wrong about him so we agreed to meet for coffee. It felt off when I met him because he looked a lot like his pictures but not exactly (and not in the 5 years/50 pounds ago way). So I called him on it. He admitted they were of his cousin, he, himself was married and lived in the town over instead of where he said. I said to him "You've got to be f-ing kidding me", picked up my stuff and walked out. I reported his profile and let all of my local single friends know.

He told you he was married when you first met?! Omg. That's more like a 4th date conversation.

[residentdj]

Aug 4, 2016 22:33:58 GMT -5 bonquiqui said:

Definitely block. My guess is that he is married, and doesn't want to get caught.

He probably told his wife that he's been talking to 'Jake from State Farm' LOL

[brooke77]

I also think he's married and can't post his pics on a dating website. NOPE.